Trying to Conceive (The highs and lows)

[mysti]

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Let me ask my SIL.. shes a doctor and has a few really good friends who are OB/GYN's in Khi! Will get the info for you by tomorrow iA! :)

[AngelEyess]

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@mysti

Hi ladies.. ok so we just got our BFN - not too sure what to feel right now but since AF isn’t here yet, the doc wants me to continue on cyclogest for the next week incase I am pregnant. Going in for another Beta-HCG on Monday.
I had my first IUI on the 16th of Jan. after many medicated treatments we finally got to the insemination part.

Prayers for everyone waiting to hear about their BFP’s - just needed some support so posted on here

Mysti i am so sorry Lots of love, duas and jadoo ki jhappis for you! InshAllah our time will come soon, inshAllah!

[AngelEyess]

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@Drama_Queen

I'm 7 weeks preg and went for a scan today because i had mild period like cramps and a little brown sticky smelly discharge. I was so scared :( The doctor did not find the hearbeat, maybe i'm not exactly 7 weeks preg yet. Going again tomorrow to get HCG tested... Please pray for meeeeee and my baby

You are in my prayers DQ, inshAllah everything will be fine!

[Afshi]

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mysti...prayers headed your way :)

may baby dust sprinkle us all :D

[AngelEyess]

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@Afshi

mysti...prayers headed your way :)

may baby dust sprinkle us all :D

Ameen Ameen :D 2012 will be our year inshAllah!

[S02]

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@Afshi

^ Sahar, you had an IUI right?

Progeterone can be taken even without the IUI.

yes, the first time i took it without iui

[S02]

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@MaaniAli

Thnx Afshi for your kind reply. No, I think nobody ever talked us about progesterone, even I've read this word 1st time in your reply :( but lemme tell you that my wife got tested prolactin several times. she has also taken clomid several times, but of no use. and for your last question, we have'nt think about any other procedure yet as we are willing to do things in natural way. I just wanted to know that can anybody tell us about any good obstetrician in karachi other than AKU, South City and few other big names like these?

progesterone is a fairly simple way to help women carry the baby. i would definitely ask. or see another specialist.

[Confucius]

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Mysti and all the other ladies tryinc to conceive.. Thinking of you ..

I am not sure what to think anymore..

[Afshi]

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@Sahar02

yes, the first time i took it without iui

i hate the stuff. did you take the suppositories?

only later did i find out that its also in a pill form! lol.

[MaaniAli]

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Jazak Allah e Khairan @ Mysti and Sahar02

[AngelEyess]

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I thought i would update my progress. After my first failed IUI, i had my 2nd one yesterday. I had three mature follicles (the most i ever had) and hubby's count was great too, 89 million motile post wash. Now i am waiting and hopeful again. Have my beta on 22nd (if it came to that, hope it does :D )

[KS09]

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I thought i would update my progress. After my first failed IUI, i had my 2nd one yesterday. I had three mature follicles (the most i ever had) and hubby's count was great too, 89 million motile post wash. Now i am waiting and hopeful again. Have my beta on 22nd (if it came to that, hope it does :D )

89 million??? We only got 5 sleepy one in his last biopsy :-(

Allah ki den hai.. kissi ko nahi deta to kissi ko chappar phaar ke deta

[AngelEyess]

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@KS09

89 million??? We only got 5 sleepy one in his last biopsy

Allah ki den hai.. kissi ko nahi deta to kissi ko chappar phaar ke deta

But kaam to karain na…whats the use of the quantity if they cant find my eggs

[Confucius]

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Don't know who to talk to .. Hubby really is hoping and praying and doesn't let me know the extent until aunt flo shows and he sort of tells me don't worry next time but tells me how he thought it was goign to be this month..

So I am away from hubby and went to see him for 2 weeks.. Aunt Flo came on the 15th ..so the start of the ovulation date range was the day I came back.. I know it sucks..

So now it is 15 dpo and I am gettign the few days with that brown discharge (just a drop) and reading up on the websites it could be implantation bleeding or could be the start of my period..

I so want it to happen but I think my body isn't in the best situation and hubby is on tender hooks but doesn't want to ask over the phone incase I burst out crying..

I am hating this so much :(

[apple_blossom]

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i am praying for you confi ^

[AngelEyess]

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@Confucius

Don’t know who to talk to .. Hubby really is hoping and praying and doesn’t let me know the extent until aunt flo shows and he sort of tells me don’t worry next time but tells me how he thought it was goign to be this month..

So I am away from hubby and went to see him for 2 weeks.. Aunt Flo came on the 15th ..so the start of the ovulation date range was the day I came back.. I know it sucks..

So now it is 15 dpo and I am gettign the few days with that brown discharge (just a drop) and reading up on the websites it could be implantation bleeding or could be the start of my period..

I so want it to happen but I think my body isn’t in the best situation and hubby is on tender hooks but doesn’t want to ask over the phone incase I burst out crying..

I am hating this so much

awww Confi meri jaan I can totally completely relate. I always spend my first day of AF crying and eating junk But hey, it can also be implantation right? So theres still hope this month. Nahi to inshAllah next month sahi Dont worry, just know that theres someone who has a bigger plan for us, He loves us 70 times more than our own mother, then how can He not listen? InshAllah it will happen when the time is right and it will be worth all the wait inshAllah!

[Confucius]

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I don't think it is Angel .. I wish it was like that :(

[chalako]

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Angel!!!! i realy love your attitude :) m in the same boat and u all r in my prayers n yep it will happen one day for all of us inshAllah :)

[Afshi]

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for some laughs during this process:

http://www.999reasonstolaugh.com/

this made me chukle out loud LOL:

When two infertiles collide….

Your mom’s friend’s daughter is going through infertility treatments and although you barely know this girl, you know about her uterus in great detail. Thanks to your own mother, you know that Mindy went through IVF (it didn’t work), you know all about her vaginal surgeries and you’re aware that her husband’s sperm is more hostile than World War three. Your mother emailed you her fertility clinic’s phone number (“Bessie said that her daughter, Mindy, has a great fertility doctor. Here’s the number”), and your mother updated you about Mindy’s latest IVF treatment (“It didn’t work for her but she did try acupuncture. Do you want the acupuncturist’s phone number?”).

And then one day, you run into Mindy at a coffee shop.

No doubt, that Mindy knows all about your reproductive failures as well and the two of you make awkward small chat. You know she’s an infertile and she knows that you’re one too but no one says a word.
**
You:** “How is work going?” (Translation: Are you doing IVF again?).
Her: “Things are going fine. How are you and your husband? “(Translation: My latest transvaginal wand appointment indicated my follicles are growing. Are you and your husband fighting about infertility too?).

You make small chat for the next 60 seconds, wonder if she’s having a decaf or regular coffee, check to see if she has a baby bump, and then head out the door.

Thank goodness she isn’t pregnant either

[mysti]

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Awww Confi.. bus thora sa aur sabr jaani.. thori si aur koshish. Have you ever tried Salat-ul-Hajat? Its worked wonders for me..

pata nahi with all thats gone on I’ve just had such a hard time with duaa’s - duaa maangti hoon to sochti hoon ke Allah ko kaise pata nahi hoga ke mein kiss aziyyat se guzar rahi hoon.. Allah to khud kehte hain k woh 70 maa’on se zyaada insaan ko pyaar karta hai to woh kaise meri faryaad nahi sunnta? aise hazaaroon khyaal roz zehan mein guzarte hain.. aur ye sirf Shaitaan ke hi waswase ho sakte hain.
Naa-umeed mat hona larkiyon. hamare bhi din aayeinge insha’Allah -