To the Sons n Husbands!

[Maham]

@Reha

AND one more thing. There ARE families that DO NOT have sons to take care of them. If a woman gets married, sees that her inlaws are provided for and dont direly need their other son, there is NOTHING wrong with her wanting to support her parents or be there for them ALONG WITH her HUSBAND.

And who even said that the daughter or the son-in-law do not have their responsibilities n duties towards the girl’s parents? Stop Assuming.

No one can deny that every child has their responsibilities towards their parents b4 and after marriage and whether a girl or a boy. Especially when the married women’s parents are alone or dont have a son then her and her husband’s responsibilities are all the more.

Nobody is saying the guy’s parents have more importance, its just that Allah choose the family set-up to be within the guy’s family hence the structure of family. It could either be the girls or guys family so one has been decided and there can be no conflict on that.

@Shak09

Why does my respect/love for her parents has to be compared with respect and love to my own parents? :aq:

Er don’t you think it would be a bit selfish of me to expect her to love my parents’ (who she wouldn’t know much about) to her own parents’ who had brought her up?

Nobody asked for that comparison. Obviously the love one has for their parents can’t be compared to any1 at all. BUT you can given them equal respect and that’s what i have tried to point out.