For the counter argument: Is it not considered ‘selfish’ to expect man to love a woman who he just got married more than his relatives. Just to make a point here bro. His relatives had more time spent with him than her right?
I don’t think anyone should be considered selfish here since loving and respecting someone is not a bad thing and no one is asked to jump over the bridge for that.
This mindset is the root cause of all the MIL/DIL or any in-laws problems in families.
I did read Reha’s post.
Come on why use the word selfish… just to repeat my point here.