To Laugh or To Cry

[Mamzie]

Re: To Laugh or To Cry

@khattichic

Sounds highly idealistic and utopian to me. However noble your intent may be, (and I don’t doubt your sincerity), your posts come off as sounding extremely snobby and elitist.

We all can agree to disagree. The beauty of an online forum such is this is hearing and learning from different experiences and points of view. No need to get offended by someone questioning your stance.

I’m not offended. I wish i could share with you what people going through this process share with me almost each day. I will ask some if i could share their messages, maybe then you people will realize what an ill process this whole thing has become. How it has made parents life a living hell when they have daughters sitting at home getting old because either they are not slim enough, tall enough, pretty enough or not belonging to a rich family! And i can understand a very goodlooking or rich guy not approving for such girls cuz ok fair enough everyone wants compatibility in all these things but when even a below average shakal wala, hardly earning 15k-20k/ month guy rejects a girl cuz she aint like a model or not able to give loada of jahez then i want to kill of such people or atleast very rightly show them their aukat by showing them a mirror to what they are and how lucky they would be to even get what they don’t even want to consider.