So lets say the guy claims to like you, the parents of the guy like you and your parents like the guy. Everything else is great except physical compatibility from your point of view. He's hot and you're not ugly but also not gorgeous. Some might think you're pretty. However, he could potentially do so much better (strictly referring to looks), not other stuff like education or religion. Both equally religious (the grl may be more) and equally educated. This might seem shallow however, please comment on whether you think this is a reasonable thing to worry about or a ridiculously stupid thought to have. Some might say that personalities and such have to match, which they seem to, however there hasnt been much face time. mostly online communication. The families and the guy have known each other for quite awhile. However, the only time the grl and guy see each other is at mutual social gatherings (a glimpse or two every six months or so). Thanks. Any input is appreciated.
Basically everybody is happy however you think although you are his equal in most respects that he is more beautiful than you and could go for a better looking girl. If he did go for a better looking girl perhaps she would have some weaknesses in other areas that he would have to compromise on. I have seen plenty of couples where one partner is more beautiful than the other but they are still happy and physical beauty is a non issue. Physical beauty fades with time anyway, besides what is the point having a beautiful wife if you cannot get on with her and do not feel happy.