My friend has been in the same situation for a very long time with one of the Pakistani man and the guy was a complete liar. He flirted with her for 3+ years, used her good, and went back home & married a virgin even she was a virgin to begin with.... This is totally unfair to the girl because she was in love as he promised her that he will marry her.... He destroyed her life...
I also want to ask the same question. Why the hell do they do that? What do they gain from it?
Such a typical Pakistani thing, I guess, just as muslims think they are going to janat no matter how many sins they do since it is promised to them, they also think as Muslims they deserve a few hoors in earth too, since they are promised for them anyway.
This isn;t directed to the good muslim men who didnt engage in sex before marriage out the the fear of allah and sure they deserve a likewise woman
but this thread is more directed to the party animals out there who have done everything under the sun and now want a virgin wife just for the sake of their insecurity.
Your wife might be techinally a virgin (hymen in tact and all) but you cant deny that she never had desires before meeting you, been curious about the male anatomy maybe even had fantasies about sex! Afterall she is a woman and a human being. So i guess no one is purely innocent and you must get all this crap out of your heads
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Well said, amzsonikuri, I couldn't agree with you more!
3yrs and 5months... He set the girl up for it because he acted like the most decent guy on earth, he used my friend good, left her.. At the same time, he was involved with many other girls, left them too. He went to Pakistan, look for hajabi girls for marriage... This really broke my friend's heart since she belongs to a decent family as he has lied about 90% of the things with her....
Wow, to do that for 3.5 years requires some reallllyyy good manipulation skills. I can safely say that this guy has manipulated himself so much to do this that he isn't in any good place. He most likely doesn't know it, because he is so good at manipulation that he cant even see his own truth.
The guy is screwed up to his core. Congratulate your friend for getting out when she did. I hope she isn't blaming herself for this situation, because something like that can turn the strongest person into a big huge pile of dust (but she is most likely stronger than that to turn into dust).
Wow, to do that for 3.5 years requires some reallllyyy good manipulation skills. I can safely say that this guy has manipulated himself so much to do this that he isn't in any good place. He most likely doesn't know it, because he is so good at manipulation that he cant even see his own truth.
The guy is screwed up to his core. Congratulate your friend for getting out when she did. I hope she isn't blaming herself for this situation, because something like that can turn the strongest person into a big huge pile of dust (but she is most likely stronger than that to turn into dust).
She cried alot for him but gradually became a stronger person at the end.... He treated her like a trash but she still tried her best to make it work with him. The guy was an ass & I tried to stop my friend from stooping herself so low but she was in love I guess.... He manipulated her good with words as he shouldn't get blamed for anything and she did believe his stories like a fool....!. She always spoke highly of him and we girls tried to make her realize that the guy wasn't worthy of her... End may sach samnay aageya, uski gandi habits that he lied about everything for 3+ years....
Such a typical Pakistani thing, I guess, just as muslims think they are going to janat no matter how many sins they do since it is promised to them, they also think as Muslims they deserve a few hoors in earth too, since they are promised for them anyway.
Wow... This is such a different mentality of men I have heard off... Then they want a pure girl at the end???.......
I think their amiyan should do their putar's chitrol to keep reminding them "Beta assay kaam nahie kerna"
I agree with u Arabjaani.... Girl, these type of men are assholes...
Who ever said they want a girl who has never even thought about a guy that way before marriage.. You aint human if any of you on this forum claim that.
Who ever said they want a girl who has never even thought about a guy that way before marriage.. You aint human if any of you on this forum claim that.
That really bothers me and I was just disgusted by a few posts by one stupid guy.
You want a pure wife while you were going around everyewhere having FUN?
I think a virgin woman deserves a virgin man.
Im in a middle of a rishta process and the guy is my cousin. He went to highschool with me and we lived near eachother since we were little. I know a lot about him like him making out with girls and everything else related to that. Im not even sure if he is a virgin or not. This is the reason that is stopping me from saying yes and I know if I open up and say this to his family, they will deny this. But I am 100% sure. I was friends with the girls he went out with.
I want a man who I deserve. If I have turned down guys due to my religious reasons and waited a long time to get married to a perfect man, than I do deserve the right, pure guy for me!!!!!!!!!!
