This isn;t directed to the good muslim men who didnt engage in sex before marriage out the the fear of allah and sure they deserve a likewise woman
but this thread is more directed to the party animals out there who have done everything under the sun and now want a virgin wife just for the sake of their insecurity.
Your wife might be techinally a virgin (hymen in tact and all) but you cant deny that she never had desires before meeting you, been curious about the male anatomy maybe even had fantasies about sex! Afterall she is a woman and a human being. So i guess no one is purely innocent and you must get all this crap out of your heads
Oh well…even if they have done everything under the sun..they will not admit to it…99% of them won’t…only 1% will have the guts to actually admit that they have not been “GOOD” boys!
And the ones who admit to having 3-4 girl friends at the same time, think that all other Pakistani men are like them too!!!
Hmm that’s interesting. What if the guy had been intimate and told you about it? He’s fine otherwise, looks, education etc but does have a non-marriage sexual past. If he’s honest with you do you move on or take that as a show of character?
well then he shouldnt expect a pure virgin wife either…
He should be willing to accept the woman with the same kind of past too. If not, then he is just an hypocrite and the girl should move on
Heeeeeeeeeeeeeellllllllll NOOOOOOOOOOOO, never ever.
Screw you people. With all due respect of course :).
Look man a wife is going to be the mother of your children, something special, something pure.
No guy wants some girl who was pounded by some other dude, for a gf sure, wife, no way, say whatever you want, cry as much as you want on an internet forum, but it is what it is.
Guys just think that way, like 99% of red blooded meat eating Muslim guys want a pak saf wife.
Anyway tobah tobah asthaghrifulla, I know guys shouldn’t sleep around either, and I don’t condone it, but for those of us who made the mistake, we have to get stuck with trash?
I don’t think so, why when you can get a nice clean one.
I made a beautiful post summarizing this all before, i’ll re post it below.
To all the men, don’t listen to this bs, its mostly just bitter chicks posting here from time to time, make your tobah don’t do it again and get a nice clean wife.
A man will also b the father of ur children… sooo y not demand a virgin one.. lol
going by the same thing u stated… no girl wants a husband who pounded other women
y the double standard? wht if u fall in love with ur gf? would u not marry her even then? And y would u even date someone u know u will never marry? just 4 fun? thts truly sad and shows the loww thinking of ppl
A muslim women then would also desire a saf husband
wht bout the girls? y should they get stuck wth trash, if they made a mistake?
I don’t think so either, why when you can get a nice clean one.
and lol… i m sooo not biitter, just pity the double standard
To all the women reading this, don’t listen to this bs, its mostly just narrow-minded guys posting here from time to time
i didn’t get it… you are virgin but not “pure” virgin when you know about the anatomy of wo/men and feel attracted to the opposite sex?! hmm.. ok.. nvm.
But girls don’t care!!! honestly some might fine, but if girls started making those kinda demands from guys so many would never ever get married!
I mean if that was the case, how come we can marry 4 wives, its just different.
Its different, you can’t equate men and women in exactly the same light when it comes to these things, you just can’t, don’t even pretend like you can, and I know you know exactly what I mean.
For a guy to bed many women is a source of pride, something he will boast about to his friends!!!
For girls Muslim or Non muslim to sleep around is a source of shame, even in America in high school the girl who sleeps around is laughed at and looked down upon!!!
While the guy who has many pretty girlfriends, all the girls want him, and his popularity will go up and up!! Sorry that’s just how it works. Its like as a man, the more pretty girls you get, the more girls like you. It’s not fair, but it is what it is.
Guys are gross beings, women are inherently beautiful, hence a man is not “dirtied” by touching a woman, but to get “pounded” by a guy, well i’m sorry no one wants their wife to have been banged by another dude. That dude will always laugh at you, always.
wowwwww… r u serious? omg! i didnt know ppl still thought like this.
surprised!!!
well… i m just 2 tired 2 argue right now… perhaps tomorrow i will answer ur post
Trust me, you are wrong! There are plenty of guys on GS who have no problem with their wives being in relationship(s) prior to them (physical or non-physical), thats why you called being modern`.
I know at least a dozen girls who were in relationships at school/college/uni then later met ‘the one’ and ended up married to them..
Bottom line is if the guy likes the girl enough he prob won’t see it as such a huge deal and luckily not every non-virgin man out there is so insecure or hypocritical..
Open your eyes ! There is a difference between Muslims and Non Muslims ,30 percent of the muslim guys sleep around which leaves 70 percent virgin muslim guys ! And are u serious when you said that women have desires prior to marriage too ? Offcourse , everyone human being on earth have sexual desires after puberty.Some have less desires ,some have huge desires,unless you are bisexual then we have a completely different topic.
