What are the available facts in this case? Im just wondering.
The point is that time HAS changed. Ive no idea where your above sentence came from.
If man has repented and has realized his mistakes…go for him. Agreed. I think thats fair and is also true for BOTH man AND woman.
Women HAVE compromised more than men in the past…but they are NO LONGER required to. They have many many more options available to them now.
As far as women needing men more…I have yet to see an example that has been given here where its true in this day and age. So far, Im just getting what people call “zabani jama kharch” and not a single ounce of evidence. Ive seen men cry and beg for women just as much as women have. Ive seen men not able to move on with their lives just like a woman cannot. All I see is posts and posts of talk and nothing more than that.
Really? Independent women are falling short? lol This is so funny. I had no idea…why dont you tell that to the next working woman you see? Then come back here and let us know what she says.
I dont think you will understand right now. Your argument is flawed because its just for the sake of an argument. There is no rhyme or reason here. You’re telling me an independent woman is going to fail?
If the man has repented then go for him. If you will not, he will find someone else with lot more choices.
Women do and have to compromise more than men.
If a girl has stayed pure her whole life she shouldn't have to settle for less because the guy couldn't control himself. Marriage is a huge deal for women and the guy is going to be a life partner not just someone there for a few days.
We have to take his name, and give our kids his name. Of course we want the best that we can get. The ration is slightly not hugely skewed in favor of men, but that doesn't mean that our choices are limited.
Girls are more emotional then men. While we don't physically show our feelings, it KILLS us inside. Some girls will take a guy that has slept around because they either have a past or don't care, are in love, are pressured, and others really are majbhoor, but the rest don't want a man that sleeps around. Its most of the guys saying that a man's past doesn't bother a women but IT DOES.
While I think you might be trying to be helpful by saying that a guy can emotionally support a girl and a girl should marry him, deep in a girls heart there is still going to be the thought that he has slept around. That there was another girl in his life that he touched. I would never be able to get over that.
but the problem is that.......even if men are virgin and demanding a virgin.....they think that they would 'deserve' a virgin if they had not been a virgin.......and that feeling of superiority is the topic of the discussion......
Well depends on ones logic. A guy is likely to be more promiscuous then girls although in modern times that is debatable. Point being is if he is virgin then nobody can say anything to him and if he is not then he shouldn't make it as a demand. Lets be fair if he is not he will probably still demand a virgin.
^Yes. If he is not, he will still probably demand a virgin. And that demand makes him a hypocrite. He might want one (and he is free to want whatever he pleases) but to think that he is entitled to one because 'boys will be boys' is ridiculous and unacceptable, especially to those women who ARE independent and don't need such a man. But this itches some special kids on here. And the debate goes on and on.
Thanks for the kind words. But I want to fight with no gloves on and being truthful..just use pillow to fight…more fun.
Men may not forget the first encounter, but what I said is that men can still give hundred percent to next relation/encounter, compared to women…unless… you know what..:)
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no we dont, why dont you enlighten us. and please remember..the SAME applies for men. type it out now please.
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Men do compromise. But women in real world have to compromise MORE. That is the fact./**QUOTE]
Why would I get down on my hands and knees to change a dirty tire when I can simply pick up the phone and call this amazing service that goes by Triple A? And by the way, its not hard to change a tire or give a jump. Ive actually done both…involuntarily of course. I had to so I did.
Is this it? Your example dependency? Bass? I guess you can consider yourself replaced.
