To all the men who want a "pure" virgin wife

[Reha]

Re: To all the men who want a “pure” virgin wife

@redvelvet

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Agree. You think he thinks of himself as trash as well? Or does he think that since he did tauba after sleeping around that he’s no longer trash?

His tauba renders him clean…but the woman would still be garbage.

Or maybe he thinks his gender exempts him from that label.

All of the above. He thinks HIS tawba renders him a clean object and the woman - regardless of how much she tawba she does…she is still a dirty object. In his mind, his gender makes him superior and apparently more forgivable, clean, pure, etc. The fact that he married a virgin is great but to a certain extent…his wife is also an object in his eyes…not a woman or human being…just a clean thing he happened to find.

Its a psychological problem.

@diwana

While EDAL said something funny and albiet controversial.

We have to give him an applause for speaking his mind, being bold and saying many many facts. (Hope he does not get banned or whatever)

You agree with his flawed mentality? Diwana, why dont you try to impress me with you wit and intelligence at least some of the times? Come on!

OK:

Women/Girls:

Let me break it down.

Men have choices. Got it?

They do and can go for it.

In this whole wide world after centuries of centuries women never have been able to get to that point.

Why?

Women need men more than men need women, for so many reasons..even if you take away the sex from equation. ( Refer to my thread where I discussed about Even God being ‘male figure’- not ‘male’ per se)

While I do respect all women for being women, they need to realize the fact that having less of choices, their rantig on men having been around (not endorsing the act of being around), will NEVER help them in long run and when they find men who have been around but ready to be with them only,

…they better accept!

P.S. Do not even try to write exactly opposite statements. Won’t work.

I dont think anyone needs to try to write the opposite. What world are you living in?

Women are educated, working, buying property, driving their own cars, paying their own bills, even replacing men like you with sperm banks, etc etc etc. Men are in more need of sex than woman so there goes that too.

Why would a woman keep a man that is a waste of breathing space if she doesnt have to? You dont get it, do you?

The power that men think they have is usually given to them by a woman. Women boost your egos to fool you into thinking you’re the man. Thats how she gets you to do what she wants. Do you really think a woman is a weak, bebass and majboor little thing? She can give birth to you, she can take you off this planet too.

You know how easy it is for a woman to get a man? She could be ugly, she will still have an army of men that will want her. You think a man will have the same luck? No, the poor thing has to work for it. Society gives you all the right in the world to screw around and do what you want…even though its wrong in Islam. But lets say a woman chose to do that. Do you think you could stop her? Catch her in her lie? Who will stop her? Question her today if she decides she wants to have the same fun as you men. Who? No one. She can hide it just the same way you men do and “get away with it”. On the day of judgement, her punishment is the same dear.

So no…you dont have any more choices…its all in your head…or as I like to call it…dimagh ka khalal.

Times have changed, women have changed…but our men are still sitting in the caves. Ooga Ooga.

Bara-e-meherbani…apna ego ek taraf rakh ke dimagh ka istimaal karein zara.

@queer

well if the forums are representative of actual pakistanis, i’d say times have changed, diwana. your womenfolk seem better poised to live in the modern world than your men, and might actually have more choices than you realize just yet..

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