Re: Upset..need advice
yeh Chameli…cant u move away from her?..but i guess u muyt not be able to do that as ur hubby myt want to live with his family and take care of his parents and sis ryt?..
divorced women have nothing elz to do but sit round and interfere n other ppls business…(im not saying that to everybody but jus sum who have a habit of doing that)…
i know Atif is very sensitive about his family…especially his parents…but he’s also fair too…firstly alhumdulillah his parents are way too nice to even point a finger at…but if i dont like sumthing which has happened and it has bothered me i talk to him at nyt…and i tell him my feelings about it…he wud then take it into account wot went on and what can be don e to deal with it…
one thing i have learnt is if u wana be in ur hubbys good books u have to love wot he loves…he loves his family u have to learn to die for them…he likes his sister u need to respect her even more…
the things u sed above about ryt after ur marriage she started saying lets look for her bros rishta…that is painful…
…i’d be really pissed if she sed that to me even as a joke…u can say instead…‘hum aapka kiyoun ni dhoonte?..looks like ur the one in need for one much more then ur bro’…
i know its bad bad bad to say these things but these women can only be tackeled their way…give her a taste of her own medicine…and about the txt msg thing…sweety try not to leave ur mobile round…and if they had read it jus own up and with a smile on ur face say ‘husband piyaar ke ulfaazoun ke alawa aur kiya likhe ga?..im soo lucky he loves me soo much’……she’s shut up her self…
like u im not even challak…if this was happeneing to me i dont think i’d be able to stand it but i’ll be preparing myself not to let her cum btw me and my husband and try to be the best in everybody elses eyes…