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Just give her a hug and a smile .....that's it.
In my opinion she wants your attention. She wants
u to pay attention to her being sad.
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Yea, that’s my point so he can give her all those flowers, choclates and trips to expensive resturants in the next forty years.
Right now a trip to Mc Donalds will work 
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…teach me 
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She is having an easy life so far! Reading digest and being sad about not having her full luggage arriving here, wish we could have so much luxuary!! WOW
I work my A$$ off here, when I get home from office 38 hours, first thing I do is to clean the place, put things in order and then decide what to cook. After cooking the meal and making chapaties EVERYDAY I make salad or sometimes some desert for after meal or warm milk, I do the dishwashing clean the kitchen everyday before going to bed and believe me there isnt much time to read books or ly around worring about silly things in my daily routine, not to mention, weekly shopping, weekly cleaning even the toilett and weekly laundary and offical work during weeks.
Talk about being na-sukhran!!
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i am with anty of million :k: . god forbid i get a wife like that.
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dunno man, it depends upon ladies' moods. sometimes the most hurtful thing goes unnoticed and sometimes it gets stormy for a tiny silly reason.
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That was one thing and i re assured her about it.
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I hope not, and PCG you dont try to let her know, otherwise a new argument - why u discuss things with other people !!!
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^^^ perhaps its time this thread was deleted... you dont want to make more trouble for yourself!
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^^^ well she is more into HarryPotter sites and discussion boards not Gupshup!
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but one day she will take an interest in the sites you go to and may come across this discussion...its not nice to have your dirty linen washed in public by your husband ... even if it is years later.
its just something for you to ponder thats all.
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well it was bothering me and i wanted to know about others here how they think about it. I could have started thread as friend of friend having this problem etc.
but even she read it later in life, there is nothing to hide and its not really personal that it cant be discussed.
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u know what....besides all the other one million things ....i respect my husband most ....coz no matter how bad i am ....he's never gonna discuss me with any other person .....
n another thing ......there r some women who will try to ignore small things in a relationship .....but will just explode on a minutest thing out of the blue ......only because small small things turned into a pile of complaints ....that too unnoticed .....so its better to sort things out at the earliest possible.....
plus...(yes i know my 'advisory list' is getting longer)
every individual is different ......some ppl are short tempered .....but at the same time they can be in a good mood in no time after venting .....n then some are like me .....who take longer to show any anger .....usually try to avoid confrontations ....but when we are in a bad mood ....we need some 'alone' time to be normal again
you know what ....we as a couple usually try to point out good things we r doing for each other,.....rather than criticising....n it really helps .....
good luck!!!
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I know it’s hard but it’s very important for you to keep your cool and be understanding in these situations. Talk through it and provide comfort during these times and don’t let the the issue get any bigger. Its always good to resolve all issues while they’re small and fresh instead of sleeping over it. I’m sure one day will come when your wife will realize how much you care for her and how silly she’s been acting. She will appreciate your understanding and patience, and try being more mature in the future.
Good luck :k:
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I know it is little hard for you but, in any new relationship people go through these types of things. Just keep things light and funny....it takes about 6-12 months for two people to really get to know each other. Very few people hit it off from the start....
So, just be cool and tell her that you are with her and understand what she is going through and hope that she understands what you are saying.
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mmm i dont think ur wife iz a spoilt brat at all, like some other ppl have bluntly mentioned. It appears to me tht she iz a sweet lil girl who cares about lil things and wants to be somewht dependent on u. I personally think, u should rather b grateful that u r married to a simple, non-materialistic girl. Since she cares about silly lil teeny weeny ishtuff, its even easier for u to cheer her up. Frankly yaar, u can use these moments to grow ur affection n unconditional love in her heart.
Look @ the positives, she iz not unhappy about some diamond accessory tht u could nt get her or let say a romantic vacation in switzerland (yes! its not very unheard of). Its a simple digest for heaven’s sake … i find it very cute
P.S. Get her buzy in something productive, thts gonna keep her mind occupied positively. Hmmm …afterall, an empty mind iz a devil’s workshop !!!
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wait for a while..give her time...hopefully she'll adjust
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I havent said she is spoilt at all. she has this tendancy to get upset by lil things and make me upset in this process. also dont listen or think what i may feel about her actions. may be thats a new thing for her to care about what others think. she is hardly upset about things or relationship we have with eachother. its always cause of other external things that make her worry.
i had preplanned a romantic tour to lakes as a surprise, and went on very 2nd day of her arival here. and it was a very good one for both of us. swiss is sure very much heard off and isnt new for me, its on the table along with others and will be another surprise for her once i have sorted her visa for other countries i have planned.
Afia > good that you have a nice hubby, guess I am not that then 
all people here doesnt know me or her personaly. I could have discussed with my friends or family but i didnt cause I also think its not good to do that.
If i have concerns about anything I can always tell her and discuss.
the reason posting here was about to know how other guppans feel about it cause they r women and i may have been missing some aspact of women behaviour.
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sorry i didn't mean it like that!
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Why is it that females are allways protrait as victims and males are protrait as cruel monsters! Give him a break, poor thing is trying each and everything to make her happy, what else would she want more!
Restless: get her busy, why cant she get herself busy, she aint a baby you know but a grown up woman.