pinks
May 14, 2014, 11:01am
61
Re: The worst thing someone said to you …
“Aap ki ye (meaining me) beti kisi kaam ki nahi hai, bilkul bekaar hai” that still hurts because it came from a relative… reason was that i was not the gharelo/ sughaRh type 10 years ago and my younger sister was.
“Aao hum iss ka kaan pakRheiN, abhi tak issney bachey paida nahi kiye” it was a round table conference with various ladies from my in laws giving me a lecture. Awful awful experience
Re: The worst thing someone said to you …
so this thread is all abt chugal khori of wht ppl said/did bad to us
Re: The worst thing someone said to you …
pinks:
“Aap ki ye (meaining me) beti kisi kaam ki nahi hai, bilkul bekaar hai” that still hurts because it came from a relative… reason was that i was not the gharelo/ sughaRh type 10 years ago and my younger sister was.
“Aao hum iss ka kaan pakRheiN, abhi tak issney bachey paida nahi kiye ” it was a round table conference with various ladies from my in laws giving me a lecture. Awful awful experience
Oh my God that must have sucked! Ouch I feel for you
Re: The worst thing someone said to you …
… and what did you learn from it?
What doesn’t kill makes you stronger. So did it?
One of the worst things someone ever said to me was: You are a failure at life. Real success in life does not come from being highly educated or having a successful career; real success comes from forming good relationships. * And you are such a disloyal, awful person that you wouldn’t even be able to keep a husband for longer than a few months.**
*This was from a potential proposal whose parents had been shopping around for girls while their son was only interested in this proposal. So when they went ahead with someone else, I stopped all contact with him. This was his response.
Did it make me stronger? No. Still makes me sad to remember all that was said and done.
Uffff WHAT is wrong with people?
Re: The worst thing someone said to you …
Once my khala was offering her daughter to go for shopping in moti bazar (rwp). And her reply was “Nahi wahan nahi jana, wahan XXXX (my name) jaati hay.”
It was funny and hurtful at the same time.
Re: The worst thing someone said to you …
I hate when the relatives try to create a divide between siblings. We have one female family friend who does that. Whenever she sees my sis and I together somewhere, she would comment only on my sister’s look and ignore me completely. Or sometimes as an after thought she will say, oh yeah madz looks nice too. Drives my mom crazy!
Plenty, my dear.
Aaze
May 14, 2014, 1:24pm
67
Re: The worst thing someone said to you …
I said you should offer some help, not scare them away.
Re: The worst thing someone said to you …
I do not remember anything bad said to me because I know it was rubbish..meri hard disc may kisi bakwaas ki koi jaga nai hai
Re: The worst thing someone said to you …
‘U are not my type’
i dnt care what the hell is ur type
Re: The worst thing someone said to you …
Lagaani thi use kaan ke neche kheench ke
SID_NY
May 14, 2014, 2:07pm
71
Re: The worst thing someone said to you …
These are the most abused words, esp in west, like the movie “he’s just not that into you” I’m a bit surprised if its said that often in Pak as well.
Re: The worst thing someone said to you …
Main lga b deti agr samnay hota to
yeah these abused words are getting common in Pak culture among some pyscho cases, after all we are so much influenced by the west
_Iraj
May 16, 2014, 5:41pm
73
Re: The worst thing someone said to you …
… and what did you learn from it?
What doesn’t kill makes you stronger. So did it?
One of the worst things someone ever said to me was: *You are a failure at life. Real success in life does not come from being highly educated or having a successful career; real success comes from forming good relationships. And you are such a disloyal, awful person that you wouldn’t even be able to keep a husband for longer than a few months.
*This was from a potential proposal whose parents had been shopping around for girls while their son was only interested in this proposal. So when they went ahead with someone else, I stopped all contact with him. This was his response.
Did it make me stronger? No. Still makes me sad to remember all that was said and done.
in life many people say awful things to us but this does not mean we keep reminding ourselves and be sad.
one of the best things in life is to forget and move to much higher standard.
a certain person whom i really liked said something very disturbing but i never gave it a second thought.
in masters a girl got very jealous and said something very disturbing to me but i paid no heed and alhamdolilah im at much better place today.
things do happen but only if we learn to forgive and forget we accomplish more
Kinzz
May 16, 2014, 5:57pm
74
Re: The worst thing someone said to you …
I have heard so many worse things,and the sad thing is I can’t forget them or Let go n move on.,whenever I see or think about them it remind me of what they said..I don’t know why but I think may be I’m sensitive or may be bitter .
Re: The worst thing someone said to you …
kareele kam khaya karen
Kinzz
May 16, 2014, 6:02pm
76
Re: The worst thing someone said to you …
muqawwee123:
kareele kam khaya karen
Dekha sab ne
Kinzz
May 16, 2014, 6:06pm
77
Re: The worst thing someone said to you …
The very recent was
tumhara to mazhab hi kuch aur lagta hai, Tum konsa Quran parhti ho ya Namaz parhti ho Jo Bari aae gunah sawab ki bat Karne wali.
The worst thing someone said to you …
Stop acting like an asshole:mad:
_Iraj
May 16, 2014, 6:16pm
79
Re: The worst thing someone said to you …
Kinzz:
I have heard so many worse things,and the sad thing is I can’t forget them or Let go n move on.,whenever I see or think about them it remind me of what they said..I don’t know why but I think may be I’m sensitive or may be bitter .
god has given both abilities to forget or recall things.
so you will learn to forget bad things if you try
cut them and throw them away
_Iraj
May 16, 2014, 6:25pm
80
Re: The worst thing someone said to you …
ok that girl in the economics class said such a sub standard thing that i was not able not answer back and in the end she started crying her self and last of all it affected me so much that i dropped my next day exam.
lol at life.