The issue is not about gossiping by the way. This argument is added for convenience.
Its about saying what is wrong. And not finding excuse for it.
And i am not saying that we are gossiping here in this thread......... i am just saying that people spread these type of news just for gossiping (in our society).
And i am saying it as well that we should not find excuses for their wrong acts. Wrong is wrong... sin is sin.. how can we justify sins (any sin) in any circumstances? I don't think so we can... and we should not.
And i am not saying that we are gossiping here in this thread......... i am just saying that people spread these type of news just for gossiping (in our society).
And i am saying it as well that we should not find excuses for their wrong acts. Wrong is wrong... sin is sin.. how can we justify sins (any sin) in any circumstances? I don't think so we can... and we should not.
If i were you… i would keep a cell-phone near me, and inform my loved ones **(especially a non-mehram bestfriend)…**in case the SO is busy with cars or soccor etc…
you might get a stroke/pop on of your veins or something very soon…and might need to call the accident and emergency services in case some unfortunate event happens… i hope they have neuro-surgeon available (alongwith a psycho-therapist)…
No, I dont. Your posts have little to do with truth…its just the same beejamalo type stuff.
Agar apke moon se aurat ke liye koi dhang ki ya izzat ki baat nikalti, I would take you seriously.
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Just because society does something, it does not mean it will be forgiven for you and you wont be held accountable for it. Society will pay for what it does and so will people who break the rules - no matter what rule it is.
Koi apni zindagi kis tarha jeeta hai - isse humara kya lena dena? Why are we so nosy? Apne kaam se kaam kyun nahin rakh saktay?
Why would I have no good words for women? There are good men and women and there are not so good men and women. We are merely talking about the act here.
You just want to prove both are not responsible? Yeh nahin Ho Sakta!
P.S. Me and bijamalo? This thread has some ill-effect on girls…being paranoid.
yeah but I am not in debate mood today LOL maybe some other time, I know there will always be a guy there going but yes, thats right but this that and the other. I personally think if you are with a guy at the time he may seem like hes promising the world to you and you may or may not do something stupid and then he turns into mr jekyll and runs off, I guess those type of guys are scum. And I hope some sort plague irradicates them off the earth LOL. Wishful thinking. I just hope that women of today make better choices and say no to manipulative men, our religion is a beautiful one, we should all follow it with eyes open and try to adhere to it as best we can.
If the guy never promised the girl anything, for instance marriage, and the girl allows him for whatever reason (naviety, stupidty, attraction, hopes), to penetrate her, then it is hers equally aswell as his fault. If the guy leaves her later or the relationship doesnt work then she cannot blame anyone but herself for expecting things in excess. Being muslim she was well aware of the bf/gf relation prohibitions in Islam and its associated wisdom.
On the other hand, if the guy claimed he loved her and made promises of future marriage, which allowed him to manipulate her and make her trust him, and under this the girl allows or acquiese's to his approach, its still wrong of her- but not as much in above case- because she was shown a different perspective of the relationship than it in reality was.
On the other hand, if the guy claimed he loved her and promised future marriage, whcih allowed him to manipulate her and make her trust him, and under this the girl allows or acquiese's to his approach, its still wrong of her- *but not as much in above case- because she was shown a different perspective of the relationship than it in reality was.
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Thats what i believe.
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is she stupid ??
just because someone 'promised' her something...and she believed it........ did she forget or ignored the fact that actual commitment to to have sex or get physical is "marriage" and not mere promises???
when she goes in the 'relationshtip' to the extent of getting physical (when she knows for a fact that nothing is final until marriage...and it might not work)..... how can she avoid responsibility compared to the guy???
… ek se badh kar ek
This thread has some ill-effect on girls…being paranoid.
