THe 'understanding' issue

so its not just me.:bummer:

My love life had been smooth. But recently i feel i am always ignored, never understood. I have so many complaints, at times i feel sick of myself. But i am unable to find a solution. I have tried all that i could. I tried to explain politely, became strict with it, i tried everything. But nothing works. Maybe its a bad patch, some inertia, and things will improve. But i hope i don’t go insane by then.
I am a little ruined too i guess. I was always “wanted” by everyone, may be that’s why i cant digest i’m being ignored. But .. oh .. this is bad:(

Who's ignoring u? Your girlfriend?

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No my boy friend lol

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dont worry too much, i am sure you BF is just going through a rough patch or maybe has a lil too much on his plate and thus the time off, hopefully things will get better with time, All the best :k:

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Thanks kaun. No the thing is he is not too busy. Still

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Maybe you need to leave him alone and give him a chance to miss you?

Men start to ignore women they take for granted.

Start becoming a bit too busy for him. Cancel plans on him a few times. He will be fine.

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fire and water have totally different properties yet these two combine for better reason....

Totally agree.
Are you always constantly trying to talk to him? Trust me the more space you giv him the more he will wanna talk to you. And in your spare time you'll find a new hobby! Seriously im talking from experience. :)

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use reverse psychology on him...IGNORE him! :)

The thing is each time i tried ignoring him, i felt i was being unjust and that i would end up hurting him. and whenever i leave him alone so he misses me, i start missing him and that too like a freak lol. Thats probably where the problem is. I know he takes me for granted. There was a time i just wanted to be his good friend and not be committed thinking of all these problems. He did all the nice things to make me believe he would be an outstanding lover and bla bla. Now things are totally opposite and that hurts me. I mean its hard to digest when u become entirely insignificant to someone to whom u were nucleus to everything.
These things would have sounded entirely kiddish to me had i not experienced this lol

They cant live together right?

yes i am. and oh yea i have tried to engage myself but maybe i am heads over heels in love with him. Everything, every way leads to him. I read this twilight series and all i could think while reading was how he was like edward once and he i s no more like that. cooking, i don't think is a good option. My mind keeps straying around.

I might sound crazy to some people but trust me when u are too sensitive and these things happen, u can hardly figure out a non crazy way of thinking.

OK but how exactly

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I think you're a spoiled girl, and you need to develop an identity outside the one that your husband/bf/whoever gives you.

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^ lol.. pcd pcd what wud we do without you!

I love u PSquared. It works lol

Be careful, after a while, men start to love those chances. He may actually start craving for the chance to be alone.

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salam .well i had the same sort of story like ur jalpari lol i am married and i still love my hubby may be more then before these things u know happens i had a love marrige first it was like ooo he cant live with out me after that totally changes and now when i got our baby he totally ignores me but its okay with me i love himm so much that i alwys think positive in the end he always comes to me lollll......so some time negativity comes so much in my mind that i cot so much upset but later on i know that if do any thing wrong hurt him its will hurt me more.so cooollllll girl love him and ignore these things as long as there decent fellows we should thank GOD that he has given as nice DECENT life partners ...
regards:) and don worryyyyyy.

How come both true at the same time?

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ghar mein bartan ho to appis mein takra jatain hain aik dosaray se thora dour rakh do. so lil break lagao phir green signal pr accelerate dabaooo :D excess of everything is bad