Re: THe 'understanding' issue
han awain kisi ko sir peh charha k nahi rakhna chahiya.. ^o)
Re: THe ‘understanding’ issue
:k:
How come both true at the same time?
after all i am a human both thing exits so just balance it...and its fine :)
hmmmm actually sir per charhanay ki baat nahi hay bas i try to ignore such things ....thats create any sort of fuss.
Re: THe 'understanding' issue
u too . Ameen
salam .well i had the same sort of story like ur jalpari lol i am married and i still love my hubby** may be more then before **these things u know happens i had a love marrige first it was like ooo he cant live with out me after that totally changes and now when i got our baby he totally ignores me but its okay with me i love himm so much that i alwys think positive in the end he always comes to me lollll......so some time negativity comes so much in my mind that i cot so much upset but later on i know that if do any thing wrong hurt him its will hurt me more.so cooollllll girl love him and ignore these things as long as there decent fellows we should thank GOD that he has given as nice DECENT life partners ... regards:) and don worryyyyyy.
U know when it builds gradually, u build lots of expectations too. U wont digest the change that easily, when its all built slowly.
When u are willing to compromise, u will keep on compromising, now matter, how difficult the situation is. When u want everything to turn your way, you have problems all the time. It all depends on what trail u chose for yourself. I wanted to be compromising, but i don't want to be ignored. I mean, stop trying eventually. And if we both start living our own life, then the whole marriage thing would be a waste. I mean if he forgets to wish me on my achievement, all i can do is remind him in very loving way. If he doesn't wish me after that, and i am really irritated at the second reminder which was of course after a week's gap, and the reply i get is 'i was gonna do that',its too pesky. And if at the same time, i recall, how i threw parties at his achievement, how happy i was from deep inside, how i wished him, i feel really annoyed. Its not about give and take, its that i start feeling as if i have no worth. Then u dont know how to think positively.
Be careful, after a while, men start to love those chances. He may actually start craving for the chance to be alone.
Such men don't deserved to be loved
ghar mein bartan ho to appis mein takra jatain hain aik dosaray se thora dour rakh do. so lil break lagao phir green signal pr accelerate dabaooo :D excess of everything is bad
lol yea i think reasonable break is necessary to make others realize ur worth. when u give ur all, they start taking u for granted
Re: THe 'understanding' issue
I agree. Jab koi cheez paas ho to gadar nahi hoti jab na ho to buhat pachtawa hota hay :D
Such men don't deserved to be loved
Your choice.