I’ve already commented on your co-worker and I hope the issue gets resolved. Must make it tough to come in everyday knowing you have to deal with something like that. Hang in there.
**Yea I thought of that part too! But you don’t have to cook it either! I know it’ll sound annoying but get takeout one time and put cold medicine, laxatives, hot sauce, soy sauce etc in it! That way you can’t be blamed! And when he can’t handle it, be like huh looks like you aren’t man enough to handle a couple of spices! **
This is what you need to say to him instead of online. He knows you wont say boo to a ghost, so he is making the most of it. You need to stand up for yourself and speak your mind. Speak to other colleagues about it and get their support /adivice…and just ignore his extra hellos and interruptions, pointedly. He’ll get the message sooner or later.
and if he isnt following the policy then, you need to speak to him once, then speak to you manager.
meh.. now you start throwing everything at him, while your initial post clearly showcases your prissy attitude. i hope the guy teaches you a lesson in respecting elders, and being humble and pleasant to your coworkers.
WTF? How am I disrespecting him? Everyone in my office is older than me, I cant get food for everyone. Do you get food for all of your elder co-workers?
You took it a step further by criticizing my morals and ethics. I would always help someone in need whether they are older or younger, but to make it a habit of depend on others it not ok by me. Please tell me how it is my responsibility to waste my gas, waste my one hour of lunch getting his food when I have errands to run for myself and my own family? Please explain to me who’s being disrespected me or him?
Buddy oh pal… did it occur to you that he is not leaving to pick up food because he wants to save his gas? As previously stated, he has asked me to pick up food from other places that are out of my way. Once again I HAVE ERRANDS TO RUN ON MY LUNCH BREAK, SUCH AS GETTING MY OIL CHANGED, PICKING UP MEDS, DOCTORS APPOINTMENTS, ETC. I DO NOT HAVE TIME TO PICK UP HIS FOOD. I stated in my previous threads he interuppts conversations and even went to the point where he kicked me when I ignored him? And Yes I am the one that is disrespecting him because I got upset that he kicked me and MIND YOU… I still did not say anything to him when he did that. But I guess that was disrespectful of me. It is also really disrespectful of me to worry about my family and their needs over his. It is very disrespectful for me to not ask my mom who is much older than him to make him food. Gas is expensive, I do not what to make an extra trip for someone who is to cheap and lazy to take care of themselves. I have to preserve my resources for my family, but I guess thats just disrespectful of me.
every work place has one such prissy princess. who thinks when others ask her to pick up food, it is for them to save gas, and suddenly her oil needs to be changed. dentists appear out of nowhere. people kick her. oh the drama..
in the time it took for you to post all these posts, you could have cooked the victim a good plate of biryani and earned yourself some sawab. but no..
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