The Most Obnoxious Irani Man...

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I agree....

I am just gonna be like sorry I dont know where your hands have been and I dont like people touching my food.

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LMAOOOO zaroor zaroor, mein apne gold ka samaan teyaar kar thi hoon.

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Put some dollar shollar in packet too

Thanks in advance

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Khabi paise chaiyeh khabi nahin chaiyeh... so indecisive!

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For that gustaakhi the asking rate just increased :snooty:

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HAHAHAHAHA

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OMG!! Poor you. Okay, first of all have you tried telling him frankly that you don't like this behavior and its not funny, you don't really enjoy this banter or whatever he thinks it is? Try that if you haven't, just say .... listen, I guess you think you're funny, but to me you're not.... this is making me uncomfortable and kindly do not do this anymore or I will have to report you to HR.

If that doesn't work, you need to find out if his behavior bothers other people around you as well, discretely.... and is he this obnoxious to other people besides you? If yes, start documenting his behavior... start a diary or something so you can actually quote incidents.... then report this to HR, they will conduct an investigation and warn him. Its no use talking to your supervisor as she seems clueless about handling this, but yes HR representatives are trained to deal with difficult situations.... tell them that this kind of behavior is affecting you and workplace is becoming extremely unprofessional for you to work in.

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hahahaha

I have one that literally meiows at me. I think its cultural. You have to learn to find it funny. ALso, I think they are generous enough to reciprocate with the food thing. ALso Also, I think he thinks you are friends.

relax

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He directs this behavior towards me more than others.

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I know he can clearly see it bothers me... why would you want to aggravate your friends while they are trying to work/surf GS lol.

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he sounds like a pest have your fianceehave a talk with him,that should iron him out.

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Just watch.........you're gonna leave your fiance and end up maaaaaawied to this guy. Kidding.

You need to put him in his place. Why does he even have your contact number? Don't even bother giving frustrated explanations to him. Just ignore, ignore, ignore. Treat him like vapor.

If he still bugs you...tell him that you've had enough of his antics and they're bordering on harrassment and that if he doesn't control himself....you'll tell the boss about him or report him to human resources. He may be continue to bug you.....because apart from showing exasperation.....you're not firmly showing him that you want him to leave you alone.

As far as the joking is concerned........I know that repetitive jokes of the same time can get OLD...not to mention irritating. But, I've heard people say "Oh bring this food for me." If I mention that I'm going to have party or make biryani......my boss has said "Bring some for me." It's no big deal. It's nothing to take seriously. They're more than likely joking and if they're not.......you're not obligated to cook for them. Smile...brush it off.

Or in his case....pretend you didn't hear...vapor! Had to deal with an irritating coworker. He would ask weird...irrelevant...sometimes inappropriate questions......not only to me but the other ladies at work. He would even interrupt me with unnecessary tasks. It seemed like he wanted attention or something. I treated him like vapor.......and also threw my hands up in the air and SNAPPED at him a few times. I've never had to snap at a coworker before. But it scared him enough to work. He doesn't bug me anymore. Another teacher he was bugging did the same.....and now she's more at peace too :)

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Okay, I'm supposed to be studying for finals (STUPID CHEM!!!!), ahem.

My idea? Make some horrible disgusting food, next time he asks for it, give it to him. :) Say you were experimenting with it or something. Make it so bad that he gets sick! Everytime he asks, keep giving him rotten food, maybe then he'll back off!

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RV... the entire office has my number as I am "needed" on call where I work. I personally don't remember giving him my number though. This guy is MUCH older, he's old enuff to be my dad. When he asks me to bring him food, hes serious, he asks me where it is the next day. If I tell him I didn't bring any, he's awfully disappointed and he doesn't try to hide his emotion either. Trust me I have ignored and ignored and ignored he just doesn't seem to get the hint. The only thing I can think of is making smart comments and laughing it off to put him in his place.

RIA- LMAOOOO what a good idea. But than hes gonna tell everyone that I cant cook and my fiance is very unlucky to have a girl like me.

Asma- I cant have my fiance get involved as it would ruin everyones relationship.

THis guys knows I am annoyed.... seriously...

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PS. don't bring your fiance in work related issues. If you can't figure out, ask your manager or a close work friend for help. Best thing is keep ignoring him and don't show him you are irritated.

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Yeah i'm not involving my fiance in this. I'm going to try ignoring. He wasn't in yesterday and I know today is probably his day off. So i dont have to see him until Monday.

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i dont get it. whats so bad about picking up food for coworkers? it doesn't make you a chapraasi. everyone does it. why do you get upset because he says hi to you? i think you need a good slap for being such a prissy princess.

either way, you should feed him your crappy cooking once. that should shut him up for good. maybe he'll even change jobs.

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Buddy, Do you know how to read? I think you need a good slap. He says Hi to me every time I turn around, every time that I get up or he does, every time that he comes in, or I come in, or another one of our co-worker comes in, he says Hi to me.

There is nothing wrong when you offer to get someone food. But I only have an hour lunch break, and if I am not offering to get his lunch, than I obviously have something to do. I have errands to run, I work Mon-Fri 8-5, so I have to fit a lot into an hour that I cannot do after hours. Such as, go to the bank, pick up medications, get an oil change, etc. That shouldn't even HAVE to be explained to anyone. If I am not offering to pick up food that doesn't make me a prissy princess, that's my choice. All the reasons stated are a damn good. Therefore he has no right to force me to bring him and the rest of the team lunch because he’s too lazy to get up off his a and get his own damn lunch on his on damn lunch break. GET IT? Or do you need more another breakdown?**

Ur response was extremely queer.

I believe I also mentioned that he does not follow the proper process, procedure, and guidelines that have been set for our team. He will send me something and leave out the mandatory information, and I have to request it from him each and every single time. It is not my job to babysit his work, say hi to him 50 times a day, and go get his lunch.

Next time you call someone a prissy princess learn to READ, and than think about what to say before you type it.

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I think he was just trying to wind you up DB.

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My co-worker or queer?