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I was going to say white people but I guess thats incorrect to say hmmm... umm 'western' people LOVE asian food. You need to think to yourself is this guy REALLY annoying/bugging you or is he just a nuisance in the office just like every work place that people try to avoid?
If thats all it is then ignore him. Hes not being abusive hes just being a greedy ***!
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^ I don't see the word pervy in her post!
She's not under any obligation to give him her food nor go out and buy his lunch!
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Distinctive flair 
It did!
I am very senstivie person, just like telly tubby 
DB Tell your manager. I mean he is bad enough as it is, who cares if he becomes your enemy then? Maybe he deserves it?
All he wants is food! That does not make him obnoxious or pervy!
How does depending on other people, yelling all the time, offering other people someone elses food not make someone obnoxious?
I never said he was pervy....
Aww babe! I just stumbled over this hehe... Ok NOT funny sorry.
You need to tell him straight. I had a similar problem but on alot higher scale (sexism, racism, bullied by this total chavy guy at work). I put up with it for over a year. Sometimes I would get so mad and other times I'd have to leave my desk because I'd get teary.
I ended up hating my job and found GS lol... not the best career move.
So you need to tell him before you end up hating where you work because of this person. You've tried being subtle.
haha yeah
It seems to me that he's the type of person that probably won't get the hint if you try and talk to him. Are other people annoyed by his behavior as well, or are you the only target of his annoyance? If others are involved get them together and go to your manager and have a talk. Maybe they can move him or you away from one another.
He annoys more than anyone else. My fiancee said its because he knows im getting annoyed.
That’s the thing… hes not exactly rude…
… well he does yell. and he did yell at me when I told him i was gonna go to my friends house for lunch instead of the mall to pick up the ENTIRE teams lunch.
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Maybe your fiance needs to have a word with him IMo
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Ive seen worse. So he sounds like the office joker, ignore him. Its not as if he is flushing your head down the loo's for your lunch money and sandwiches.
I can imagine its annoying but if you tell him your a private person he will annoy you more by making stupid remarks about it from then on!
Ignore, ignore, ignore.
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Awww DB, I just read your 1/4 naan and 2 piece chicken post and I feel for you :(. Ohh and then the samosa 
(I’m really hungry btw), how can someone be so mean without even realizing? If I were you I’d become a complete kutti towards him. Like " no I’m hungry, so why don’t yo ask someone else to share their food with you 
!"
I so dislike people like that!!!
Maybe your fiance needs to have a word with him IMo
He can't that will ruin his relationship with him. He will jump into our convos.
One time he said something about my wedding like he was gonna wear something or do something and i straight up yelled who said you were invited? lol
Ive seen worse. So he sounds like the office joker, ignore him. Its not as if he is flushing your head down the loo's for your lunch money and sandwiches.
I can imagine its annoying but if you tell him your a private person he will annoy you more by making stupid remarks about it from then on!
Ignore, ignore, ignore.
DF I have been doing that, it does not seem to be working. And u are right if i say anything to him in private its gonna make the sitaution worse. I think i just need to speak up, and make playful comments that make him feel stupid about asking me to get him food, or saying hi to me a million times a day.
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DB
Hire me, I'll give him chitrol for you :)
haha yeah. I mean for the most part if its a close friend I dont mind, but I dont need a MAN all up in my food you know what I mean. I probably wasn’t going to eat it all. but seriously… like how do u take that much of someone’s food, do u not have manners???
DB
Hire me, I'll give him chitrol for you :)
hahaha how much do I have to pay you for this service?
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I dont like usual monetary terms. I prefer Gold bricks :)
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Please whatever you do DO NOT have a meeting with him. He will torture you for the rest of your life over it with his stupid remarks/jokes!
If its that annoying next time he takes your food yell at the top of your lungs
'F*K OFF YOU FAT F*K BUY YOUR OWN FOOD'.
He will get scared and leave you alone for a while at least. DO NOT try to negotiate with somebody like that/
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I have to tip toe around him when I leave for lunch...
Here is what I'm thinking I am going to say, and these things will always be said with a laugh or smile.
When asking for food- "Sorry but im not your secretary". If repeated, "sorry but I definitely aint your mama".
When saying hi multiple times- " You know I'm not going to be offended if you only greet me once a day, I swear my feelings won't be hurt"
The thing about me is I keep my mouth shut to keep the peace, I dont want to add fuel to the fire.
At one point i did bring this up to my supervisor, and she made the situation worse, she started picking on me to. She asked me to do something which was not a part of my job and was unable to give me directions on how to do it or tools, so I asked my fiancee for help, and she said STOP ASKING YOUR BOYFRIEND.
I was like WTF he aint my BF get that **** straight. I mean i obviously didnt say that but i was extremely heated, and she later apologized for that... well an apology doesnt fix it.
I dont like usual monetary terms. I prefer Gold bricks :)
hahahahah kitne tole? what is that the correct term tole??
Aap dena shrro karain, jab rooknay ka waqt aai ga mai keh doon ga