SaadiaB,
if tea will be served, count me in.
PA: :eek: you are not married yet? why did you keep me waiting for all those years.
who said anything about marriage SaadiaB.. i'm there for the tea! :D
Oh I understand, w'll be there to organise and watch the fun, alright I will serve with my doopta on my heard but only if you cook the tea and smosas ma dear.
cook??? me??
woman are u outta your mind.. u've been away from the kitchen too long!!
hey who said cooking is a pure female job? ain’t I working, ain’t I bringing the dough at home, ain’t I washing your car, men and they want to marry…? 
Ask a little favour and they come up with hundred excuses. hooonh!
For the last time.. we’re in it for the tea! What’s with girls and marriage anyways!
Stop it PA stop it, I am laughing my head off and the movement is giving me headache lol, I have been sick all day :-/ I wonder why i came online! well ciao.. :)
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Check please!!!!
CH, it was a metaphor man, thats my way of saying please don't make me shake my head. :)
saadia :~)
Don’t ask for favors, Just Give Orders and then see how would they dare not to do it
It really is consolling to see that we're all going through the same frustrations and headaches regarding the finding-the-perfect-mate process. For those of us though who are getting up there in age (slowly nearly 30!), what advice can you give???
speak for yourself
I believe:
-It just happens when the time is right.
-No one is perfect.
-One has to compromise somewhere.
This is how I found mine.
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Originally posted by moona:
It really is consolling to see that we're all going through the same frustrations and headaches regarding the finding-the-perfect-mate process. For those of us though who are getting up there in age (slowly nearly 30!), what advice can you give???
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1- review your definition of "perfect" differentiate between, optimal, and acceptable.
2- take your destiny in your own hands, go meet people, get involved in different groups. have a change in routine, and groups ..I mean if they have not been fruitful so far, why not explore other venues.
Somepeople are only a six-pack away from the perfect mate.
While others require gin and tonic.
You know, this is a serious topic. We have to treat it as such and not as a joke like some of you are doing. Anyhow, thanks for all the advice. How above some advice now on how to approach a guy you see and like from a distance at, say, a wedding or another party? How would you approach him? What is the best thing to do without scaring away the guy or giving him the wrong impression??? Please help!
depends on the your personality, the type of crowd and the type of event. could you just strike up a conversation or is it not your style, or maybe you can do it but the venue is not right for you to just start chatting tosomeone you dont know.
safest way- Find someone who knows him and can introduce you two
there are other approaches too, but they are not really different than just the ability to strike up a conversation at the right time.
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Originally posted by moona:
Anyhow, thanks for all the advice. How above some advice now on how to approach a guy you see and like from a distance at, say, a wedding or another party? How would you approach him? What is the best thing to do without scaring away the guy or giving him the wrong impression??? Please help!
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I think Roman has advised on the preparation of how to do it.
I thik the problem lies with the culture and the proclivity towards having a process to something as crazy as love. What might be good fpractice in Pakistan and India may not be good practice in the states.