Test

Sara516 · November 25, 2008, 2:00pm

^One of my khalas actually sent a rishta to a girl’s house just based on how fashionable and outspoken and lively the mother was… so she really liked her personality and assumed her daughter would be the same. When she got there and saw the daughter in a regular suit nothing too fancy shmancy, hair done up in a braid…shy, quiet, and reserved… basically everything her mother wasnt… my khala rejected her few weeks later she saw the daughter at a wedding again and here she was all decked up and stood out the most from all the other girls in beauty, charm and charisma… and my khala really regretted rejecting her then

I mean obviously you dress for the occasion and arent girls expected to be shy/reserved at first during the rishta process anyway? Its so confusing!

maybe SHE was testing them, by intentionally dressing down and seeing how they’d react. they failed.