Taking gifts for family bk in Pakistan..

[Demilitarize]

Re: Taking gifts for family bk in Pakistan..

lolz this remind me of myself hehehe i asked my huby for laptop after nikah he send it 2 his mum n my MIL was not happy n she still tells every 1 that how i asked 4 lapi after nikah as if i was getting married just 4 laptop yuck :(:(

And then when husband went for a work related trip abroad, his sister asked him to bring her back a laptop !

ARGH

[Sara516]

Re: Taking gifts for family bk in Pakistan..

basically, you were newly nikkahfied and you immediately demanded a laptop which gave bad signals to husband/in-laws.

i would say first five years sacrifice from girl can make her queen of rest of life.

And that's what you gonna do to your wife? make her work like a dog and slave and then treat her like a queen?

This what keeps the "treat the DIL like garbage" mentality well and alive thanks to your kind of thinking

[STA]

Re: Taking gifts for family bk in Pakistan..

@Sara516

And that’s what you gonna do to your wife? make her work like a dog and slave and then treat her like a queen?

This what keeps the “treat the DIL like garbage” mentality well and alive thanks to your kind of thinking

are you judge aunty?

I noticed that you became too personal with me.

[zobia]

Re: Taking gifts for family bk in Pakistan..

Sure, I will get you a laptop. but it is around $800 which will be around Rs. 70000-80000. ...this would be my answer to them. :p

[Demilitarize]

Re: Taking gifts for family bk in Pakistan..

zobia get something smaller if they arent going to pay for it.

try laptopsunder.net

[NomiCA]

Re: Taking gifts for family bk in Pakistan..

You ask them to get you a very nice Gold Chain....of equal price..

[Barfii]

Re: Taking gifts for family bk in Pakistan..

@STA

but you never know the situation which i was referring. you may have different experience/assumption and that constitute your perception.

You mean this situation (below)?!! ..

@STA

i saw many cases where girl was treated well by in-laws because she did well in early years

So…(By the above statement ^^).. is it not possible that a good girl will still be treated badly purely because her in-laws are bad people? Or is that entirely the fault of the DIL… Just beacuse a DIL is treated bad, it doesn’t mean she IS bad..

@STA

i would say first five years sacrifice from girl can make her queen of rest of life.

She can make all the “sacrifices” (as you put it) in the world, but some people (with your mentality) will never be satisfied…!

You expect her to sacrifice and compromise for 5 years and only if she does so accordingly to your “definition” and by your standards, will you then “treat her like a queen”.. Well.. where do I sign up, cuz I can’t wait to marry you(!)…

[Sweetmoi]

Re: Taking gifts for family bk in Pakistan..

In my family we dont have any close family in Pakistan, so no one asks for electronics. The door ke rishtedaars fortunately have decency so they dont ask for such things either, but they are usually gifted something.

My bhabhis family is in Pakistan though, and they have a habit of requesting thing. One of her cousins gave her old and broken mobile to my nephew and then claimed he had broken it. We of course offered to get her a new of the same, but nope she had her eye set on a specific brand new model. Chaawel kahin ke!

[Decent_6Chora]

Re: Taking gifts for family bk in Pakistan..

if he/she has not asked for any specific brand/type, this would do.

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[Drama_Queen]

Re: Taking gifts for family bk in Pakistan..

^ hehehe

[soconfused]

Re: Taking gifts for family bk in Pakistan..

In my family we dont have any close family in Pakistan, so no one asks for electronics. The door ke rishtedaars fortunately have decency so they dont ask for such things either, but they are usually gifted something.

My bhabhis family is in Pakistan though, and they have a habit of requesting thing. One of her cousins gave her old and broken mobile to my nephew and then claimed he had broken it. We of course offered to get her a new of the same, but nope she had her eye set on a specific brand new model. Chaawel kahin ke!

LOL @ chawal