Taking gifts for family bk in Pakistan..

[Barfii]

Re: Taking gifts for family bk in Pakistan..

@STA

i would say first five years sacrifice from girl can make her queen of rest of life.

@Barfii

Just a quick question: Do you expect your present (or future wife, if not yet married) to make numerous sacrifices and compromises in the first 5 years of your marriage so that in ur eyes, you can value her as a queen?

@STA

it is my own opinion, as i saw many cases where girl was treated well by in-laws because she did well in early years.

A girl can be sooooo extremely “*obedient” *but her in-laws will ***still ***treat her bad, why? Becasue that’s the way those in-laws were..

On the other hand, if the in-laws were good people and the DIL made a mistake, then they would correct her politley and show her the error of her way(s).. Why? Because they are good in-laws..

A DIL will only get treated bad if the MIL/FIL is bad and decide to treat her in such a manner.

So by your statement(s)… if you were to come across a young girl who was treated bad by her in-laws, you would assume she was a bad DIL becasue (in your words) she did not *“do well in early years”..

*Sounds all a bit narrow-minded to me!