Re: Suhag Raat
my freinds afghan.. and her mother in laww told us that this is a custom particed in their culture... i was like WT_ _ _ _..LOL
This is very very true. A "clean" girl is heavily coveted in their culture (well, every culture I guess) and there's this whole underground ..er, sub-culture, where girls engage in loaddss of "other" activities pre-maritally with their S.O's except for intercourse just because they're **** scared of the repercussions of not being "viriginal".
Re: Suhag Raat
this thread is deranged and constantly derailing. people need to stop watching stupid movies and reading/believing everything that is printed in the (unreliable) media.
no one other than complete jaahil people do these kind of things.
maybe this thread should just get locked.
Re: Suhag Raat
Thread starter is ridiculously paranoid about someone finding out the truth.
well not exactly paranoid, but what everyone is saying (how it doesnt happen etc) is just hard to believe cuz my mom & .. family etc. ALL follow this stupid effing ritual. and FOR ME its scary cuz i broke my hymen when i was 13 from bikeriding.. idk. neva told anyone.. & now im gettin married soon InshAllah. my family has brainwashed me (always) abt this “blood checking custom” in my head. 
Re: Suhag Raat
^Well, I hope you have gotten the answers, if not, let me know and we will reopen the thread.