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As much as i would like to carry on this chat, its 5:30 am, i have been up all night and the matchsticks will no longer hold my eyelids up.
So i say goodbye for now, and leave you with this parting gem:
"Suhaag raat hain ghoonghat utha raha hoon main"
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i dunno its a difficult one.
have u heard the story of the prostitute who did a good deed by giving water to a thirsty dog, and for that she was granted paradise. i tihnk only Allah can judge us…and he should be honest and sincere with Allah.
i dunno wot to say…i’ll let the others continue…im going now:wave:
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Forgiveness is something else. She might choose to forgive him and thats totally fine but she has to knwo what shes getting.
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Haha! That reminds me of South Park's episode "Cartman's Silly Hate Crime" where he throws a rock at a black kid and is called in by the principal of the school.
Here is there conversation.
Mr. Mackey: Well, I hope you learned that throwing rocks is bayad.
Eric. Cartman: Oh, I sure do, Mr. Mackey. I mean, I feel really bad, uhh. What was I thinking? [drops from his chair] The only thing I can do now… is try to go on and live day by day. [turns and heads for the door] See ya later.
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Zapp, you from Sheffield? Whereabouts?
How you been going round the block in this place? The community seems very religious to be honest. Well tinsley does anyway.
I think a lot of people here won't relate to your attitude because they're not from UK. Although i don't agree with what your saying, i can certainly see where it comes from.
Anyways, Zapp.
There are a whole load of decent girls out there in this world, who are probably wanting to get married to a decent guy. They shouldn't deserve any less na? Maybe they don't realise they're getting married to someone promiscuous. All i would say to you is, be careful in your choice and try to get someone that is compatible with you. Its hard enough being married and coming to a new country, let alone getting more than you bargained for :P
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Hmm, there is a lot of anti-uk paki sentiments floating around in this thread.
Yes, we dress up a little more than you do. Mind you, i've been pak on a number of occasions and never wore gold or wedding garments. Its usually something pretty ( could include small amounts of embroidery ) and easy to travel in. I guess the thought process behind it is, that you look pretty on arrival, and when your relatives meet you - your tayar shayar.
I think, generally UK paki girls tend to be more adventurous with glitz and glam. We live at the crossroads man. There is a huge bollywood influence here. We have ready access to gorgeus garments. Who could resist? lol
Either way......i love this place so lay offf !!!!!!!!!!!
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Not Fair. I am from the UK and like in anyplace in the world. There are girls with different opinions and limits to relationship.
A lot of girls I met at Uni from karachi were out and out tarts whereas there were also many very strong willed and moralistic girls from there too.
In the Uk I know more girls who are waiting for their husbands to share such intimacy. That cut me deep Shrek real deep. 
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guys who sin and yet want a perfect wife in return make me sick
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Either way......i love this place so lay offf !!!!!!!!!!!
Nevermind the dress-up, it is the attitude thats sucks big time. It is down right pathetic. I was in UK for about 2 weeks last year and found out why word Paki has become synonymous with an abuse word. Just one of the many examples here: In a mostly Paki community area, there was a nice park with swings and stuff for kids. That park is totally occupied by teen to adult desis drinking out of glass bottles and then shattering the bottles on the floor in the swings areas so that no kids can come to the swings. I also know a single Paki mother with 2 kids whose car was set ablaze just because she replied rudely to one of the low life desis who tried to approach her. On the flight back to Pakistan from London, one of heavily enamoured Mirpuri lady made his 2 year old son pooh under the seats. To "lay off!!!!!!!" I would say "get a life!!!!!"
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share the same view:biggthumb
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It is amazing to see an infant 36 post old nick makes baabay nicks jump up and down and go crazy like … 
Relax people ! even mods and admins dont take nicks seriously until they have at least 50 posts to their credit.
Zapp - You go bro :k: laga reh 
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The only attitude that sucks right now is yours.
Yes, there are dickish pakis but they exist in every ( almost ) country and are not limited to UK.
You’ve had a bad experience by the sounds of things, and i think you need to stop getting all hyped up by the actions of a few idiots.
That mirpuri woman, UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
That is sick, i so feel the disgust man
But generally, we’re a decent, laid back, fun loving bunch of people - its just your misfortune you met the weirdos
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And you get a life...
She thunders
hahahaha
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HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
NO Not all PAKI girls in the UK are sexually active. There ARE muslim girls like myself in England who still have their self respect and virginity intact, even though they live in the west.
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pucho
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You sound to me like a perfect 'Male Pakistani Muslim'. This is what PAKISTANI MUSLIM males are all about no matter what part of the world they live in or were brought up. Just like those 'Big Brothers' In the 'Big Brothers Problem' thread in Life 1.
You yourself admit, "i am no longer a virgin and have been pretty sexually active" BUT do not want a girl who's been 'around the block' that's why importing one from PAKISTAN.
HA HA HA... you know what pal, I cant wait for you to come back to tell us the story how you discovered that your imported paki wife had been 'around the block' much more frequently and to many more houses than you yourself have been.
Guys like you happen to get 'interesting' wives.
All my prayers to you on being able to get a wife........ just like yourself.
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Duckyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!! 
Listen all you JUDGEMENTAL people. It’s great to know it’s okay to sit here behind a computer and slag off people/races/communities. I am not a mirpuri, but just because they act like that, it doesnt mean we should sit here and slate them off. I know they people can act wierd at times but we as muslims should know better than to sit on our high horse and laugh at people because they seem wierd to us.
No need to call some people a paindoo just because they are poor, or can’t live up to your standards. Just because they don’t look nice, it doesnt mean we have the right to be horrible and *****y to them. They are not hurting anyone by being paindoo but you are by being small minded and *****y.
It’s also very funny that some guy on here has slagged off all desi women from the UK. Show’s how much respect he has for women. There are mothers, sisters, daughters who do not go out and flaunt their body and sleep around like slags. There are decent people here as well as bad.
The signs of an insecure person are that they will always look for faults in others, it makes them feel better about themselves. Better to accept others how they are, or if you don’t like them ignore them. By being holier than thou and slagging off women, your not doing any favours for yourself in the hypocrisy department boys..
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Oh salwar kameez is fine, but then when u add jewelry loadsa churiyan and high heels or khussay.. 
Anyway i was talkin about flights from US to Pak (and vice versa).. 
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I was being sarcastic.. 
Nuzzie, i’m sowry
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