just dont do it again and then no1 will say anything. ps. i dont think u should go around telling everyone what uve done. i heard somewhere that we shouldnt openly tell our sins cuz it would encourage others to do it.
if youve changed from ur past then im sorry for what i said.
its just that u made it out to be that u were proud of what u have done. maybe we all misunderstood then.
and same goes for those non-virgin girls who have repented and become better muslims....the same girls that want to get married but cant cause of guys like you who have that paindu mentality.
Originally Posted by Larki-NY
*The most funny scene was those Paki gals, dressed up in Paki clothes, wearing gold as if they are all brides on their wedding day (by Paki standards), looking absolute paindooos but speaking pure British accent.
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Honestly, it's true. For the first time, I was perplexed to see... I thought they were some drama groups, rehearsing smthing, but in the plane?? all that dark yellow gold?? huge display..... guess they were going to impress their poor Paki brothers and sisters in AK/Pakistan. Ya-Allah Reham
Nobody is going to tell you whether or not their virgins when the first meet you especially if its a rishtaa, goes for both guys and girls, so hope for the best.
you know ive noticed that too. ive seen some families who are poor compared to British standards....but when they go to Pakistan, they act like the Royal Family has just arrived.....
I know one family from Rawalpindi....who live in a rented house here and i would say they are poor.....but when i saw them in Pakistan, I was shocked. they acted like they were so rich....just to show their pakistani relatives.
I know one family from Rawalpindi....who live in a rented house here and i would say they are poor.....but when i saw them in Pakistan, I was shocked. they acted like they were so rich....just to show their pakistani relatives.
The people in Pakistan encourage it though. They start slaving around for you.
to be honest the majority of pakistani population in Britain is Mirpuris/Dadyal etc.. I dont normally tend to get on much with them though :D so all my friends are from lahore, islamabad, karachi etc.
I think its REQUIRED for you to tell the girl, not her family BEFORE you get married to her or before she is involved in a relationship to you. It might be very important to her, obviously its not to you.
Sara you knwo what would be funny? The girl tells him on his suhaag raath shes been around
yeah it would be a good idea to tell the girl. but you know sometimes even if u tell the girl and after that she doesnt want to marry him…she may be forced into marrying him. in that case, she wont be happy for the rest of her life knowing shes married to someone whos been sleeping around.
I think if hes sincerely asked Allah to forgive him and accepts his mistake then he shouldnt tell her (especially after hes married to her). what does everyone else think?
how would you like if someone sold you an apple saying nothing but when you went home, it was sara howa. Wouldnt' you feel cheated? LoL hes sara howa apple...