Re: Students from abroad are welcomed/Mods please bring that thread back…
ravage thanks… 
Ohioguy I have not just LOOKED inward, but I have SCANNED DEEPLY. I honestly don’t see what you find so offensive
(I’m being sincere).
I DON’T see WHAT is it that offends you so much?!? Tell me please so I can change it if I’m wrong.
IN CASE you are taking some of my light hearted or joking comments about America/Americas TOO SERIOUSLY then tell me which ones and I can tell you that those might have been jokes, just like I joke about my own culture, country, even myself.
If its my disagreement with US foreign policy that annoys you, then sorry, I don’t agree with it. You should accept the truth. The US and Israel are the aggressors there.
And OG, I have been offensive and you guys are not ganging up on me? I ALWAYS choose to ignore it when you guys go on your “Lets get Irem” frenzy. You say bad stuff and I always take it, I don’t even reply.
I even came into this thread only to prove my point, not coz i have a personal vandetta against anyone, which you, storch and obviously now Seminole have against me for reasons totally unknown to me, except my guess at the end of my reply to storch’s post above which I have bolded.
storch
Okay, let me tackle that one by one:
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Earleir in the thread was a link to a “America:the root of all evil” thread (March '03)
“wasting ourselves here” in the context of your free ride at Stanford I found very disrespectful.*
Please quote what it is that you find offensive and why.
- “look at the top colleges, Silicon Valley…filled with foreigners”…
The attitude reflected in your post earlier in this thread you claim “doesn’t count” has reflected your feelings all along. You have had a superior attitude toward white students and probably Americans in general. It was off-putting then and continues to be so. You were challenged on that attitude and instead of trying to understand what might have been offensive in your manner, you dug in your heels and got indignant that anyone dared be offended by the pious and highly intelligent Irem as you are convinced it is not in your character to do so-you are so very “fair minded” that’s its practically impossible.
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Well no I can commit mistakes like everyone else, but I know my intentions when I say something and in this certain case I knew that my intention was not that I was on some high and mighty “I’m superior” thought level.
Yes so its a fact that Silicon valley is indeed filled with foreigners, can anyone deny that? Isn’t it the truth that without contribution of foreigners America could never have been where it is today? What’s wrong with that claim?
I never claimed to be pious and highly intellifent. Yeah that part where I said “we are the smartest…” was indeed to tick you guys off and in response to all that you had said 
Its true though that America takes the cream from all foreign countries.
It was never that big of a deal to start with, and I wish everyone would quit assuming that our expectations are for blind patriotism. Your refusal to examine how you might have offended-your conviction that it’s a near impossibility is what is so continuosly annoying. No one wants thanks. No one wants an apology. There is a saying here as well: “If you don’t have something nice to say, don’t say anything at all.” You could have stayed wrapped up in the warm blanket of acedemic and social superiority. And if you are right and the U.S. suffers for not being academically rigorous (something we all acknowledge), well then shame on us, we have work to do. But have the courtesy in light of the free education and the opening of doors of opportunity to you to refrain from telling us or your brothers and sisters how lame we are.
*I’m not in any blanket of academic or social superiority, but perhaps thats how you want to view me.
When did I say that Americans are lame? You’ll even find me saying that Pathans (ppl beloning to the north west province of Pakistan) need to work on their education and girls in Pakistan don’t choose challenging majors (that trend is changing now), does that translate to meaning that Pathans are lame or girls in Pakistan are lame?
You are the one who jumped to conclusions from my posts and extrapolated them to negative conclusions which you wanted to see.
Actually, you don’t need to stop ragging on us. Just don’t be surprised if you get tagged with a label of “arrogance”.*
Well, if someone is prejudiced and insists on wanting to view me as that, what can I do? I know in my heart that I’m not arrogant and that’s all that matters.
Kaleem bhai,
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Some of the blanket statements you made regarding the inability of the goras not being able to do the research were out of line to say the least. I am not sure what you majored in at Stanford, but all the “sissy” majors are mostly researched by these goras. Guess what, economics, business management is driven by these researchs and findings.
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Kaleem bhai isn’t it true that goras don’t go into majors like EE and CS mostly? Its my personal opinion, but I do think that non-science majors ARE “sissy” majors b/c they are not demanding or challenging enough, and they are easy. If you believe otherwise, then explain to me why.
Now to the actual point. How will you feel if a gora came to pakistan for studies (folks we are assuming, so hold the jokes..ok) and spent four years at Pak and started dissing paki way of life, paki habits and culture? Please answer this question honestly. We will discuss further after you answer.*
I will feel offended for sure.
However, Kaleem bhai, I don’t know if you have even read my posts, I have never dissed Americans entirely. I oppose their foreign policy, true that. I oppose certain things in their lifestyle, true that, but I also oppose things in certain Pakistani’s lifestyles.
And, I have appreciated good things about America too, BUT these guys never see that, coz they only want to see the criticisms coz they simply want to pick a fight with me, that’s all 