So let’s say you are a nice young dude/lady, happily married and minding your business when out of the blue an acquaintance you know through work or some other place tells you that she/he (respectively) has feelings for you.
How would you react?
What would be your next step?
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Thank you. If I get divorced, I'll call ya.
What? A woman should always have Plan B. Both kinds.
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Depends. A few question must be answer:
Based on the answer of those questions, its either an affair, a one night stand, or a clinton.
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Oink oink.
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Just say thank you... you're flattered and let it go.
^Ditto. How can a person who knows you are married have "respectively" feelings for you anyways.
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This has happened to me....
I was very upset and disgusted because the person knew I was just about to be married.
I didn't even repond to him and ended all communications. Actually, one of my friends told him that I wasn't interested.
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lolz, why do we even think of these topics. Too much time on our hands…
This has happened to me....
I was very upset and disgusted because the person knew I was just about to be married. I didn't even repond to him and ended all communications. Actually, one of my friends told him that I wasn't interested.
You umeed crusher.
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I would say nothing. I dont know what to say to people like that so I just dont and leave/end all communication.
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^ You mean you wouldn't even thank the person?
It must have taken a lot of courage for that person to work up the nerve to say something like that.......
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But it was wrong of that person to put you in an awkward position no? Why thank them and even faintly acknowledge that emotion.
For example, if I had a crush on some married person who was happily married, what would be the purpose of revealing my feelings? To cause chaos, some bad feelings, maybe give him options?
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^ Ur right about that actually. Even if someone werent married but in a relationship with someone... to tell them that u like them isnt quite the right thing to do.
but these days, anything goes yeah? People are always hopeful. That maybe somehow you may return those feelings. So... thanking them probably isnt a good thing. (and yeah, i think i did say i'd thank them... silly though)
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Life is short, have an affair :)
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But what will happen when my short life comes to an end one fine day and I have to face my judgement 
??
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^ exactly. Life ka kya patha... hence always try to be good
^ You mean you wouldn't even thank the person? It must have taken a lot of courage for that person to work up the nerve to say something like that.......
Thats what gets me so frazzled.
It probably did take a lot of courage for them to tell me how they felt. However, if Im in a relationship...marriage...then havent they put me in an awkward spot? If Im happily married...why are they saying this to me now? What are they hoping I will do? Leave my husband? And if they really love me, dont they want to see me happy in my relationship?
It just opens up a can of worms no married person wants to deal with so better to just stop talking altogether.
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you need to learn some manners
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