So let's say you are a nice young dude/lady, happily married and minding your business when out of the blue an acquaintance you know through work or some other place tells you that she/he (respectively) has feelings for you.
How would you react? What would be your next step?
I won't let it go that far where someone can say something like that to me otherwise I'll punch him on his face.
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Good keep the relationship open 
Only if he is not you type
I know right! That could b rude.
It’s true no one would revel their feelings no matter how much they like the other married person. UNLESS of course he/she finds out that your marriage is not working out and just throwing in an option for you!
I say awwwwww cho sweet to that
No way! In Affairs - you have to keep lotsa secret. You will get some chapppals if you are caught with a hicki!
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I think initially i would have been surprised as i dident see it coming. Than i would have just ended all communcation with him:snooty:
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generally you can sense these things coming, its never really a total shocker in my opinion...so its better to start keeping a safe distance when one senses these feelings developing.
welcome to the secret brotherhood of pigs.
oink oink
So let's say you are a nice young dude/lady,** happily married and minding your business** when out of the blue an acquaintance you know through work or some other place tells you that she/he (respectively) has feelings for you.
How would you react? What would be your** next step**?
If a person is "happily married".....truly "happily married"......then there should NOT even be room in his mind to contemplate a "next step."
And if you really are the kind who "minds your own business".......then you shouldn't be too affected by this romantic confession apart from an ego boost. If you do start showing the confessor special attention...........then you're not exactly "minding** YOUR OWN** business" are you? Instead......you're tending to and "minding THEIR business" **of the romantic feelings THEY** have for you.
If a person has a crush on you........as flattering as that is........it's really their problem. So, you let it remain their problem........by not encouraging them. Don't flirt, don't lead the person on. Once you start doing that.........you're making their problem your own as well.
If you are contemplating cheating on your spouse......then perhaps your marriage is not as "happy" as you thought it was. Maybe it's lacking something. And in this scenario, you really only have 2 options:
1) If you DO value your marital commitment, you will try to concentrate on your marriage and make it work.
2) If you believe that your marriage is beyond repair and you no longer have the motivation or desire to stay in it..........then be honest with your partner. What makes "cheating" so shameful is the DECEIT that it involves........(the lying, the hiding, going behind your partner's back, etc). However.....if you're honest about wanting out of the marriage................then there's no deceit that you have to face........there's one less thing to feel guilty about. There's a wrong way and right way......a shameful way and decent way.......to go about even the unpleasant of tasks.
it happened to me
i was flattered and said sorry im married, i think he was more embarrased after that than i was
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shaadii ke ba;d aisii auratélaRkii se door rahuuNgaa kiuN k merii family meri liye ziyada aham aur azeez hai apne andar ke shaitaan se, seriously!
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well i wont be too worried about such a thing, as some of the posts have pointed out that just tell them you are married and that you are flattered but sowwy no chance and if you want thoraa saa jhaar bhi dein key aap key dil mein aisa khayal bhi kaisay aaya, girls are good at that. :k: