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Lussi women were made to spend their husbands money. To control his life once their married. The kids come because thats the ultimate leash on a man.
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Lussi
one word of advice from your Auntie Daisy
DONT EVER GROW UP AND GET MARRIED.
Now come here and let me pinch your cheeks and tell you that you must do well in your exams so your mam and pappy will be proud of you.
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lol yeh call me a kid or whatever but its very surprising to me that a woman wudnt want to be a mother...shouldnt it be that just came naturally..but guess not..i thought such women were dykes..god god..whats happening to our world..i miss the good ol days..sigh
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.. some of the replys are so 
.. being a father and seeing how my wife cared about the kid I wonder is there a time better spent than parents spend with thier babies.. any sleep better than the sleepless nights spent with crying babies.. any freedom earned away from kids.. if there is fear that babies with take away freedom - then why marry at all.. surely; spouse is going to take away freedom! The motherly feelings are the only form of unselfish love in the universe..
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Hey, this is why guys shouldn't be allowed to chime in on things about feelings that women have. The point everyone made is that these feelings are common and they change naturally with having children. I can say that being a mother is the one thing I did really well and I am sure that there are other women who responded the same way I did who did well also, regardless of our fears or our detactment with OTHER people's children.
This is why women don't open up fully to guys like you two. How much more judgemental can you be to call women who feel like this dykes? And Degas, we know all about mother feelings once we became mothers, don't even start about devilish.
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Those who are wondering about growing population and stuff… You STUPID poeple 
Don’t you know soon there is a commet coliding with earth and BAMMMM, It will finish off all of your miseries.
Remember you wannabe goddeses, by your not having a child will not change anything.
I like playing with kids,beating them and eating their food and feeding them etc. and also taking bath with them in summer and having a nap with them and smacking them, and when they cry I take them out side and buy them chocolate and when they are happy and all again I smack them.
Dont get any wrong idea, I do it to make their bones stronger, so when some neighborhood kids beat them they dont feel much pain and hit them back.
Yes I Also love kids, when they cry you can always hit them or take them out side. Its easy :k:
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^ 
See I can’t deal with other ppls kids..at least if mines being a lil prick I can smack him a lil bit w/o getting arrested, fired, or incurring their parents’ wrath :halo:
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^ I totally agree with you. With your own you can raise them with a iron fist
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Lets just clarify
Women who dont gush over OTHER PEOPLE babies PREFER TO , or indeed HAVE sex with ladies.
How amazing, I didnt know about that…
Lussi, My darling little sugar plum, So sweet of you to inform me…
all these years that I didnt know… and more to the point MISSED OUT!
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I don't know if you girls are joking or what...but a woman who doesn't have maternal feelings or any love for the kids is not attractive at all. A woman who goes gaga over kids is more attractive than the one who holds back or doesn't show emotion at all. :-)
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I dont think taht jus coz a woman won't go googoo gaga over some baby n a commerical or on teh street will be a bad mother...
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Hmmmn Interesting… the caveman instinct
The need to procreate means a gushy wushy (and therefore fertile?) type is more attractive.
there is a certain logic to what you say Faiz.
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Fayz - that is fine for you, no one is arguing that, but it is not the standard for all men, just you. My husband prefered that I was ga-ga over my own kids only, so it worked for him. You can't judge all woman one way because you prefer a trait.
To each their own.
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lol sorry this just goes to show what kind of guy you are (see how I didnt use the word Man).
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^ And what kind is it?
Women loving kids is more pleasing (attracitve) to the eye. Whats so less manly about that :-)
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Nothing, but it is a preference you wish in your women only, which is fine.
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what do people think about guys who go ga-ga over other peoples kids?
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^ i think thats really cute :) i have this one friend and hes soooo gaga over lil babies.. and he gets offended if the baby doesnt take a liking to him. But he's been like that ever since he was like 5... and his sister's the same..
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Honestly I like a guy who is a pure hard gore man. A guy going go ga-ga over SOMEONE else’s kids is not my type. I dont go go ga-ga over other peoples kids and I’m a woman.
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I haven’t seen it, usually men when confronted with a baby, stand stiffly, and look at you with a half sick, half scared look, afraid to move a muscle so the head doesn’t roll off, and attempt to pass it off to the nearest passing woman…