Staying in a volatile marriage...divorce rate going up

[SID_NY]

Re: Staying in a volatile marriage…divorce rate going up

@strangeworld

Pata nahi kahan kahan sy aa jaty hain

I’m soo glad I read your last line first before going thru your other posts in rest of the thread.. It says a lot really..

please do write a similar punch line after every post, saves many of us from the ultra pain..

[queer]

Re: Staying in a volatile marriage…divorce rate going up

you guys will scare him away be nice.

[Reha]

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@strangeworld

You’ve pointed out only one issue in my recent message means you agree to everything else.

I’m not here to make anyone happy and can you please stop comparing yourself with Hazrat Khadija (RA). I can explain that as well but not feeling like because I’m tired.

And please go read the definition of feminism and the difference between actual feminist revolution.

Pata nahi kahan kahan sy aa jaty hain

No, I don’t agree with everything else. Please stop assuming things.

I never compared anyone with Khadijah (RA). I am asking you to explain because a woman like Her goes against all you’ve written. But you won’t because you can’t.

I’d read up on actual Islam…not the mullah-brigade-custom-made-fatwas-on-request.

Pata nahin kahan kahan se ajatay hein…

[strangeworld]

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@Reha

No, I don’t agree with everything else. Please stop assuming things.

I never compared anyone with Khadijah (RA). I am asking you to explain because a woman like Her goes against all you’ve written. But you won’t because you can’t.

I’d read up on actual Islam…not the mullah-brigade-custom-made-fatwas-on-request.

Pata nahin kahan kahan se ajatay hein…

You see I’m tired of women like you who argue argue argue without any content, knowledge or wisdom. This is the definition of feminism I just googled and i’m quoting exact.

**“The advocacy of women’s rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes.”
**
Where does it say hey women start wearing men cloths, open your hairs on streets and start wearing skin tight jeans and you’d be considered as Hazrat Khadija (RA)?

Do you really know Islam or it’s history? Do you actually know what was the outlook of Hazrat Khadija (RA)? Even in the times of ignorance and barbarism she was a woman who safeguard her chastity like a true Muslim woman is supposed to do.

Now you come to me and tell me I don’t know anything about feminism. I pity you really and all the women like yourself.

[strangeworld]

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@queer

you guys will scare him away be nice.

Take it easy bro!

[Reha]

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OMGGG…who said anything about skin tight clothes and opening of hair and janay kya kya anab shanab you just wrote? Anyone? Even one???

Dude, quote someone in this thread - anyone - that actually proves what you wrote.

You don’t need to pity anyone…you’re actually the one who’s pitied right now…did you know that?

[Pisiform]

Re: Staying in a volatile marriage…divorce rate going up

this is classic, love watching you two

[strangeworld]

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@Reha

OMGGG…who said anything about skin tight clothes and opening of hair and janay kya kya anab shanab you just wrote? Anyone? Even one???

Dude, quote someone in this thread - anyone - that actually proves what you wrote.

You don’t need to pity anyone…you’re actually the one who’s pitied right now…did you know that?

You said that oh guess what you didn’t realize you said it or what is the scope of your words.

Please read feminism definition again.

[Reha]

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If you’re a true Muslim, you’ll realize there are reasons why Heaven lies at the mother’s feet.

Why Allah swt has a special place in Jannah for any parent who raises two daughters with the right Islamic upbringing.

Why?

Because women are beneath men? That’s why?

[Reha]

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@strangeworld

You said that oh guess what you didn’t realize you said it or what is the scope of your words.

Please read feminism definition again.

Quote where I said that.

[strangeworld]

Re: Staying in a volatile marriage…divorce rate going up

@Reha

If you’re a true Muslim, you’ll realize there are reasons why Heaven lies at the mother’s feet.
Why Allah swt has a special place in Jannah for any parent who raises two daughters with the right Islamic upbringing.

Why?

Because women are beneath men? That’s why?

First of all it says Heaven lies at the mother’s feet but it’s funny even single women/females or new wed women/females use this line and this is not the first time I’m hearing this from a woman.

You can’t hide all the things women do by whatever you saying. You know what’s the biggest problem of women is? They don’t admit when they’re wrong or someone proves them wrong.

Now enjoy I don’t feel like answering you anymore because you’re a little girl.

[Theorist]

Re: Staying in a volatile marriage…divorce rate going up

@strangeworld

You see I’m tired of women like you who argue argue argue without any content, knowledge or wisdom. This is the definition of feminism I just googled and i’m quoting exact.

**“The advocacy of women’s rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes.”
**
**Where does it say hey women start wearing men cloths, open your hairs on streets and start wearing skin tight jeans and you’d be considered as Hazrat Khadija **(RA)?

Do you really know Islam or it’s history? Do you actually know what was the outlook of Hazrat Khadija (RA)? Even in the times of ignorance and barbarism she was a woman who safeguard her chastity like a true Muslim woman is supposed to do.

Now you come to me and tell me I don’t know anything about feminism. I pity you really and all the women like yourself.

I am so loving it! Calling it out like it is. Ah awesome! Keep it up, Strangeworld!

[queer]

Re: Staying in a volatile marriage…divorce rate going up

a little girl who is not a flower.

[Theorist]

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^:rotfl:

I keep telling this to Mr. Theorist that I am a flower but he no treat me like a flower.

[Reha]

Re: Staying in a volatile marriage…divorce rate going up

@strangeworld

First of all it says Heaven lies at the mother’s feet but it’s funny even single women/females or new wed women/females use this line and this is not the first time I’m hearing this from a woman.

You can’t hide all the things women do by whatever you saying. You know what’s the biggest problem of women is? They don’t admit when they’re wrong or someone proves them wrong.

Now enjoy I don’t feel like answering you anymore because you’re a little girl.

Okay Mrs. Strange…I am a leetal grul.

[SID_NY]

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@queer

datwink

you earned it my friend!

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[Deeba1234]

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Diwana?

[Muzna]

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well..I guess I’ve been told.

[Paheli00]

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[salaam2k14]

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@Sara516

welll…you’re part of the problem too then aren’t you?

Given how serious divorce is, I would rather give someone benefit of the doubt and realize that something a lot worse was going on rather than assume the person “involved in the divorce rate going up”. Our perception isn’t necessarily reality, just because we think we’ know wha’ts happening doesn’t mean its actually true.

I’m not saying anything about the ones that might have gotten a divorce after 1 month. I’m just someone that never believed in divorce. I figured any relationship could work if both work to make it top priority to adjust and compromise for the sake of the bond any relationship can work. If a person thinks like that even in an abusive,loveless, careless marriage, and also that there is no chance of remarriage after seeking divorce, then as horrible as reality might be I would keep trying at it until I hit rock bottom or I have some route out where I can support myself.
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i was in one of those abusive, loveless, careless ones. The divorced guys i’ve come across on marriage sites were never in such dire situations when it came to their marriages. They weren’t abusive, careless, loveless, sexless nor any of those really horrible hell marriages. They just grew apart or one lived in one country and the other lived in another so they decided on divorce. We always have two sides of the story.

I’m going by how some never married desi guys talk about divorced desi women. They are like
“It’s really hard to believe all of those divorced girls on this site that say they were in abusive, volatile careless marriages”. These guys have no clue!!! When I come across these kinds of guys that think like this, i’m kind of glad i’m not married. There’s always a strong need to defend desi divorced women because most all would never get a divorce unless it is pure hell to stay in the marriage.