Re: Social Drinking??
I think we have mixed the whole thread with so many acts bundled together.
Why talk about prayer, interest, smoking or whatever.
The question was about drinking alcohol.
Some people drink alcohol and give all kind of excuses or find all kind of excuses.
Alcohol was once allowed in the days of Islam.
1- One verse suggest it has some benefits but more harm.
2- It was not allowed during prayer or salat. Based upon the event where someone recited Quranic verse during prayer wrong.
3- Final ruling, it was completely prohibited. When this happened, muslims of those days discarded all the alcoholic beverages.
Now if someone wants to find an excuse, then so be it.
It's their act and avoiding those people if nothing else is possible is the best way to adopt.
Praying for these people or bringing them to other good places like Masjid are also great options without directly confronting or humiliating.
Maybe with good company they would reconsider their acts.
And by the way, these people do know its not allowed in Islam. Its their 'defense mechanism' of their mind which makes them say these excuses..like "we are not harming anyone". Its like a child would say while watching TV and not doing home work!
About medical harm or benefits?
In small amount daily-a glass of wine after dinner (without religion being a factor), alcohol has not been found to be harmful for 'physical' health. The first Quranic verse message I wrote has to be true! Small amount of alcohol increases good cholesterol (HDL) in blood. Not enough reason to start drinking.