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I'd change or do some quick fix like wearing leggings or putting on a cardigan etc. But then again, I know what he's comfortable with and I wouldn't go out of my way to "test the waters" when I know where he stands. Oh, well.
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it would totally ruin my day .. but then we should know each other likes/dislikes in the first place.
I mean why not yo!..if chap is not wearing something nice..then wife can tell him to change..whats wrong with vice verca??.
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:k:
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In my opinion, husband could protest by not going out with her.
oh you poor poor bakra...
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^Leave @STA alone, you big fat smelly bully!
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vat! STA is my frand. but i think if he thinks that he can cancel his wifey's plans of going out just like that, she's gonna eat him off in like a week.
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^That sounded dirteh’. 
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^yeh to aapka dimaagh hai…
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yeh M, its like the 3rd time you said that in your last two posts. sab khairiyat? fiance saab nu skype ich peyjoon?
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I just felt like typing words ending in teh’.
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I'd go back out in a burka and niqab to see what he says. Oh and wear Princess Leia's gold bikini underneath, obviously
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^That costume reminds me of an episode of Friends.
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That episode was even called "the one with Princess Leia"
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The wife's attire is the condition of her husband within ... "Should he desire his wife to be a certain way, then he will have to be that way from within himself first but what he often fails to ask himself is that he often has a different view regarding other women he is subjected to in his daily life from his wife"
It would be wrong of him to admire raunchy women showing all, but at the same time expect his wife to be covered. Rather than telling her what he wants, he should simply pray to be purged of his ill-fated inclinations from within and that his wife continues to be a blessing and honour for him.
This way the far more astute being - woman - will herself align her attire to your conscious needs, when you own conscious needs are aligned with your heart's desires.
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^ does not always work. husband just needs to close his eyes, and let her be.
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^Exactly, “let her be” is a VERY important thing. Sometimes I wish ALL desi guys knew this. But alas, it’s very rare for it to be present in Desi relationships. The guy may have good intentions (doesn’t want random men to stare at her w/ bad “intentions”) but she’s a grown woman and can definitely make her own choices.
…but then a part of me likes that possessiveness from him. 
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well I have changed clothes, makeup my gold jewellary so many times when he asked me to, I love doing makeup but he likes me all natural so he often tells me to lighten up my makeup, and once I remember we were in a car about to leave to see his mum he asked me to change my clothes as he said they are to goldy but I didn't want to as his mum got me these from pakistan so I tried explain him that his mum gave me those and she'll feel good. That was a only time I didn't listen to him.
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Well once you are in the marriage for sometime, both know each other liking so this problem fades aways but in early days, I used more diplomatic and romantic words
"tum mairey leye tayyar hoie ho na? 
tu zara yee … "
and it worked every single time. Most of the time it was jewelry. She LOVE artificial/stone jewelry. If I wanted to say in lighter way it was like
“jitnee jewelry hai sub pehen loo jo pehen na sakoo wo saath lai loo”
but I realized later that poor thing did not use to wear that much. Just a pendent, couple of rings and perhaps one bracelet and it was too much for me 
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Depends on my mood :D
....and he says he doesn't like your outfit.
He says its too tight or revealing or immodest.
Would you change? Or would you tell him to deal with it?
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Depends on how it is said! If he says it in authoritarian mode then i would not be pleased :nono: but yah if it is said in a calm, respectful way i would change even if i don’t see anything wrong with my clothing 
. I would however reason with him and make him understand if he was being over protective but most likely not at that time but later.
p.s mujhe sirf pyar c samjhaya ja sakta hai
I must add here that most of the time its the women who are to be blamed for such behavior by the men because when they are courting, women get very excited and pleased when they see their bfs/fiances getting all protective & possesive about them even when it is not required.