So you and hubby are going out, you're all dolled up...

…and he says he doesn’t like your outfit.

He says its too tight or revealing or immodest.

Would you change? Or would you tell him to deal with it?

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Depends upon what their mutual faith/understanding is/was in this regard (that should have been clarified from both sides, before marriage). If it is Islam and they had considered/agreed upon before marriage to have a mutual interference in such sensitive personal matters, then his duty is only to humbly, politely and respectfuly remind once in a light jolly loving mood (without over-insisting & enforcing his views upon her) that Allah (swt) and the Prophet (saw) do not like tight/revealing/immodest clothes. If she isn't willing to do adjustments, then he should be caring and let her do as she wishes to and pray in front of Allah (swt) at night to bless him with wisdom to effectively convey Allah's orders (and ways of the Prophet saw) with "Hikmah", to guide both of them to the right path and to soften their heart to easily accept/absorb mutual sincere advises for each other, also what is best for them in this life and hereafter.

A Husband is not a policeman to enforce the orders of Allah (swt) upon her and a wife is not a policewoman to throw his humble request (reminder of her faith) into the garbage. It is a pure sincere relationship that requires understanding, love & respect of mutual POV, without any EGOISTIC confrontation/conflicts and unnecessary arguments. May Allah (swt) guide us all.

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In my opinion, husband could protest by not going out with her.

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So you'd stay at home with her? Naughty, naughty.

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A real man should help her change into something else ;)

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Indeed.

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^Wait, did you even get that?

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No, my milk teeth are still intact.

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I would change it and expect him to change as well when he wears his figure hugging white leather pants with a red net shirt.

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I just saw naughty, naughty, Am I being too much of a man? :bummer:

@Nik: Changing clothes would be the least of your problems in regards to such a “husband”…

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Seems a bit unusual…wives usually know what their husbands will approve of beforehand, so either she is deliberately testing him or he’s had a sudden change of heart.

and sometimes’ its jsut unintentional, I may not realize something is revealing but someone taller can find an issue with it… :mad:

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Well, it depends if she is a ziddi type girl. Believe me, i have seen some...

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it is amusing that women who r supposed to dress more modestly than men in every culture...........

end up wearing more revealing cloths than men...........:D

I think question is posed to guppan so i can not answer this question:D

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and these ziddi type girls ended with zalim husband.

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STA…:omg:

I just had a mental picture…:rotfl:

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Haha @ STA

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insert izzat joke here :bummer:

I have(many times) and would change if my husband asked me to..afterall its his right to see me dressed up not everyone else's..even if its an all female gathering and he asks me to change I would just to please him and not feel guilty about it later..its not the end of the world:@:

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STA, your other half, at least, has her wisdom teeth? Yes?

Haha thumbs up:k: