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Didn’t I say that she wasn’t done with him yet???
:sheesh:
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Yes. And I’ll say she still isn’t. I hope I’m wrong, but I doubt it.
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And I'd say she won't stop until she gets a restraining order.
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I am speechless. How old are you?
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No, I am done with him now!
Why? 
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Boy did not just do that!
Sahar02 said it perfectly.
Fo real.
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Naa, not possible now!
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Purple, ask yourself if you were truly happy with him. Reflecting over this question can help you move on. Don't just think about the good times you had with him, but the negative aspects of him/the relationship as well. You may find that there's more bad than good to him.
You may even come to realize that you were more miserable than happy with him and other things that weren't so obvious before. It will take time to move on because you invested emotional energy in him. BUT...maybe other reasons why you feel stuck on him are because you like the idea of having a boyfriend (though he's wasn't that great)...or the idea of being in love (if he doesn't respect you, he doesn't love you)....or it's your bruised ego that wishes that all the time you invested would have had a more fruitful outcome.
Reflect over things..but also keep busy with people/activities. I know it sucks, but you will move on from this and hopefully become all the more stronger because of it. It take time, but it's not impossible.
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Respected purple ,
Pl don't be disturbed, Take this incidence positively and especially the critique.
Be tankful to Allah that He has saved you and given you the opportunity to start new life:)
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You’re so lucky that out of all the REAL issues in the world you have got THIS issues lol which is not even an issue… Please do something serious with your life 
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Okay, what the heck, people? I’m sure the OP is young and all but you guys are seriously being mean for no apparent reason. Yes, she could have been a bit more laid-back but you have to remember he obviously tricked and played with her feelings and that must hurt like hell.
I’m sorry, Purple, you had to learn the truth about him this way but you dodged a bullet. And time heals everything so you’ll look back at this and will be very thankful you didn’t end up marrying him. 
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it may not be an issue for you but it certainly is for most normal, sane individuals! not saying that i agree or approve of her way of still keeping in touch with him however yours saying that whatever happened with her, how her heart broke is not a big deal, i think its being harsh towards her feelings.
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Awwww, thanks for being understanding :(. It’s not that i would ever want him back, it’s just that, iam hurt & i want to get over it & want to feel better.
Yes, you’re right. I had more miserable memory out of this relationship than happy ones. But thinking that he was just fooling around & telling lies is what hurts.
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Purple my darling!! I am so sorry to hurt your ‘‘feelings’’ and you should continue to be clingy and keep texting/calling him until he comes back crying and appologise for his behaviour… You should then get back together with him so he can treat you like a doormat again
Zareen does that help healing her broken heart? 
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I did not say that! :nono: I already said i don’t agree with how she is still wanting to somehow keep in touch with him or checking up on him but that doesnt make her hurt less, does it? 
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:hinna:
No, iam no more checking on him or anything like that! But the thought of he being with any other girl hurts me. The way he has hurt me & led me on, i don’t really want him to be happy with any other girl
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^ how will him not being happy with the other girl help you feel better? you should focus on your happiness rite now and just forget about him. he wl eventually pay for what he did whether now or later. just keep the faith and move on.
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^ how will him not being happy with the other girl help you feel better? you should focus on your happiness rite now and just forget about him. he wl eventually pay for what he did whether now or later. just keep the faith and move on.
Yes, I am. Thanks! :)
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zareenkhan,
very well said.
Purple100 take everything positively and best wishes for everything 
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you seriously need to move on...he is not the be all and end all of your life, treat it a little lesson, kick it to the curb, hold your head up high with ego and never look back...for your own sense of pride...do it