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Also yo!..this time to all the posters. Don't assume anything negative for fella either. We don't know his side of the story so don't take what it is and as it is. That is why i was quiet general in my statement when givin suggestion.
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Wow, what a great sequence of these posts! 
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Also yo!..this time to all the posters. Don't assume anything negative for fella either. We don't know his side of the story so don't take what it is and as it is. That is why i was quiet general in my statement when givin suggestion.
That Dragon Ball Z (Vageta?) guy in your avatar needs to seriously kick your butt for this comment. The guy was obviously LYING to her. In fact, he's not a man, he's a wussy for not being honest. A spot-on coward. There is no excuse for that, thankyouverymuch.
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M sweets..i think ya're being very emotional. Regardless of whatever happened between OP and him. This still doesn't give anyone a right to call him by good names. Lets take it as forum yo. Ya'll find plenty of people venting their frustration on gs but one thing for sure is not getting caught up with this emotional roller coaster. Inshaallla'lah someday she will be fine and find someone who appreciates her. So if i were ya..i would offer good suggestion that is all.
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Nothing wrong in being emotional.
We make judgments based on available info.
The guy appears to be piece of work - no harm in describing him as such.
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Um, “sweets”? Yeah, like that is not creepy at all. Also, even in e-lingo, it still doesn’t sound cool. :halo:
That being said, did you even read the OP’s post or are you still trying to come off as Mr. Slick-Rick who had to deal with a girlfriend who acted similarly to the OP? :halo: Also, guys like her boyfriend piss me the heck off and so I like to call a spade a spade, tyvm.
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M..by no means trying to come off as Mr. Slick Rick. Trying to be a bit more rationale here. And certainly what i do not appreciate is saying something which ya have no knowledge of..i.e, with me and my ex. And reason i have mentioned only because to understand OP's behavior. So lets not jump unnecessary.
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My feeling is, "fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me."
You teach people how to treat you. They behave badly toward you and you accept that behavior and allow that relationship to continue, then the other guy isn't the only one at fault. You are at fault too.
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The main thing which was disturbing & painful for me was that, why did he have to keep me in darkness instead of calling things off! 
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:k: While its very easy to point what other someone else did wrong…I think we also need to take the time and analyze our own behavior and see what we could’ve done different.
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What difference does it make? Is knowing “WHY” going to make you feel any better? I bet you he also wonders why you did many of the things you did (for example: stalking him on whatsapp!) but you don’t see him running after you with silly tantrums and messages do you?
No doubt what he did was wrong. However, personally, I’m more disturbed by the fact that you used your sister’s phone to “check up” on him AFTER breaking up with him! 
And then messaged him about it! 
Quite frankly, your lack of self-respect and self-confidence is sad.
While I do not condone his behavior at all…even as a woman…based on many of the posts you’ve written about the way YOU behaved in this situation…sadly I can’t say that I blame him for not wanting to continue this relationship. 
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lol…
You keep mentioning your situation with your ex so to assume no one will have an opinion is naive. And I’m being rational too, but there are no excuses for what the OP’s boyfriend did. Please read her previous threads before trying to defend him. :halo:
This.
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