So friends, as i’ve mentioned about this guy in my previous threads.
So, after i broke up with him, i didn’t really get to hear from him & i didn’t disturb him either.
One thing: we both used to chat with each other on whatsapp, but that he had stopped doing a couple of months ago, telling me that, he no longer had wifi connection in his cell, & i was too naive that i blindly believed him. But surprising thing was that, on whatsapp, for him only, it would never show when he was online last time, though for my other friends, it would always show when they were online last. I had a doubt he had blocked me. I had questioned him regarding that, he told me that he had no block setting in his mobile & i believed it. So today, while using my sister’s mobile, i just opened whatsapp, and i thought to check on him. So i added his number, i found out he was online there and when i checked my cell, i couldn’t see anything which meant he had blocked me :(. I just got so pissed that, i sent him message through my sister’s cell & instead of admitting his mistake, he started telling me that, he had bought a blackberry couple of days ago & he has now blocked me on whatsapp on blackberry, before he hadn’t blocked me, another lie!!! . So i realized he was using blackberry also. Btw, there was a blackberry which i had gifted to him some 5 months before on his birthday, & what he had told me that, he needed money so he had sold off that blackberry afte few days i had given him. Since he had told me that he was in need of money, so i didn’t really mind. But now i feel perhaps it is the same blackberry which he might be using which he might not have sold & perhaps he has been using blackberry too since a long time hiding it from me!?
Today i got so pissed off that i wrote him many things but he didn’t bother to respond in any ways. So it is very much obvious that he has got someone else in his life now.
Today i realized he was a cheat. It makes me feel so bad now. I now wonder how could i trust him so blindly! It just makes me feel that he was just leading me on throughout this relationship :(. I want to get out of all this & want to get over him completely. How to do that? I feel so bad & iam so hurt! I’ll never forgive him!
and purple, zk is right in that give it a couple months, don't contact him at all, remove all signs of him from your apartment/house, i would do the old trick of burning a pic of him and flushing it down the can. from all the info that you've provided we can safely say that this guy is a goner now since we don't have his side of this whole story as well.
exercise, get a spa treatment(if you can afford it), get all dolled up for yourself just so your self esteem stays high since you are very emotionally down, don't worry we've all been there in some way or another. But remember to take care of yourself and your loved ones first at this time.
Move on, Purple. Do not contact him through any means...be it phone, texting, email, carrier pigeon, or even telepathy. And should his curiosity about your complete disappearance from his life ...OR...his failure to make it work with the new girl cause him to come crawling back to you at a later point .....(don't expect/hope for it though)......don't be fooled into taking him back. Best wishes for a speedy recovery.
Tough love from Sahar, but I have to agree.
Fair enough you broke up with him and you were in a relationship. But you dont need the approval of another boy (especially one who regards you the way he does/did) to validate your life ie dont let it bother you.
I know its easier said than done but theres really no other way to put it. As others have said, time will heal.
Retail therapy sounds like a good idea.
Get in touch with a friend you havent heard from in a long time.
Pick up that hobby again you really enjoyed but could never make the time for.
Goodluck and remember, he didn't call you so why should you worry about him. Be strong.
As u already broke wth him, thn y r u checking him still messaging, I remember reading in ur previous thread tht Khuch tu apni izzat rakho but I think either u didn't read it or u didn't paid attention to tht.
get urself busy wth something useful girl.
Time heals, it’s gonna suck for a while but it will get better. Surround yourself with family and friends when you can, and do things for yourself. Hopefully purple101 is around the corner.
I would advise against retail therapy .... unless you are purchasing a self-help book on learning how to truly love yourself. You deserve better and I hope one day you realize and actually believe this for yourself.
& i believed it. So today, while using my sister’s mobile, i just opened whatsapp, and i thought to check on him. So i added his number, i found out he was online there 
