Re: So how many of you have really felt love, true love?
AHH man, I see most of you can't really relate to what I'm saying. You've got too many in laws, and drama issues. Angelina Jolie, Cousins ?? WTF, that has nothing to do with what I am talking about.
As for the cousin thing, I know people do that in Pakistan, but i never saw my cousins as anything more than sisters. Thus, its always shocking to hear stuff like that. But hey, whatever floats your boat.
Also it was not infatuation, infatuation and true love is totally different. I can't really explain it, you have to feel it to understand.
It is like winning the lottery though, I don't think I'll ever have that kind of pure love ever again. It's probably a once in a life time thing. Cause there was no compulsion to love each other, nothing like that. No rishtas, no bs, no dramas, no in laws, no contracts, no dowries, just me and her. That's what made it so pure.
I still dwell on that from time to time and it makes me smile. I still dream about her. You never forget a thing like that, I know she will be somewhere in my mind till the day I die.
I just want to add that, even though it can be very very painful, I am still glad it happened. Because if something feels so bad it must have one time felt really good, you have to take the good and the bad. It makes you feel alive in a way that you never knew. Like they say, better to have loved and lost than never loved at all.