lol so just because i have respect for my religion, it's called being holier than thou? so if someone came to this thread insulting someone you have a lot of respect for, lets say your family, you're gonna ignore it just because they can say whatever they feel like? you have some serious issues to deal with, i suggest you start now.
Shay9164, you're right, she is offensive, but remember, the Quran says that there is no compulsion in religion, she is responsible for her beliefs and you for yours. So why don't you just leave her be, you're not going to enlighten her. She seems like she needs to grow up but in the end, this board is for people to speak their mind and you're derailing the thread.
Tweetie Pie, what irks me about you to no end is that you type 4rm instead of from which is so freaking cheap and annoying.
Shay9164, you're right, she is offensive, but remember, the Quran says that there is no compulsion in religion, she is responsible for her beliefs and you for yours. So why don't you just leave her be, you're not going to enlighten her. She seems like she needs to grow up but in the end, this board is for people to speak their mind and you're derailing the thread.
Tweetie Pie, what irks me about you to no end is that you type 4rm instead of from which is so freaking cheap and annoying.
good topic, Niksik.
sadly, many people in life will turn out to be sneaky.
and when family relatives of people act sneaky and sag the happiness of non nosy people, it is a very sad thing to witness.
sneaky anyone must be dealt with very clearly.
and the first thing to do is to prevent the person from being sneaky.
simply draw a limit to others sense of nosy entitlement.
or treat them kindly firmly.
knowing who is who from the get go and through out, will and does help to keep at bay, such notorious and self damaging people.
and the patience demands that when one is strong willed and actually takes the high road, that one is able to leave the sneaky people with an ability for self reflection and possibly getting better to redeem their image by becoming non nosy or non-sneaky.
hope is that can be achieveable.
it does require utmost patience and strong will, though.
Shay9164, you're right, she is offensive, but remember, the Quran says that there is no compulsion in religion, she is responsible for her beliefs and you for yours. So why don't you just leave her be, you're not going to enlighten her. She seems like she needs to grow up but in the end, this board is for people to speak their mind and you're derailing the thread.
Tweetie Pie, what irks me about you to no end is that you type 4rm instead of from which is so freaking cheap and annoying.
4rm from? wat difference does it make? y so much hostility towards someone who has their own beliefs.. ahmed bhaijan let it be
^^ its not hostility its jus lame. Apparantly the use of '4rm' is cheap!!! I can name many other things in this world that i can describe as cheap , its the 1st time ive hrd any1 say that short text form of words is cheap, anyhow it doesnt matter!
niksik, i think the best thing to do is keep in mind that all their actions and nasty words will be noted and written by the frishtay with them and one day they'll have to answer to this.
Also, if you keep quiet and hold your head high, you;'re the better person by far. Now i just need to take my own advice lol, cos its bloomin hard, ive got some of the worst rellies imaginable lol!
anyway, good luck to you :)
You can’t stop people from saying nasty things. You should learn to ignore them. But it is painful to see the relatives or the people you trusted or considered your friends acting in an insensitive manner.
