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^^Wow u kinda blaming Allah for every thing here. Why is that ???
dunnp knw thts i shudnt, but we do ecpect him 2 at least deliver sum kind of justice, sum protection 4rm the bad, i never got that so i blame allah
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^Your posts are very offensive to me. You should not be blaming Allah SWT in every thread- it's such an insult. I understand that you have gone through alot and so have many other people including me at various stages of life. But regardless of that, I don't see anyone else ranting the same thing over and over again. Okay so you haven't gotten your justice yet- WHAT kind of justice are you looking for? And how do you know that people who have done wrong to you aren't suffering themselves?
It's just so petty and shallow how you always talk like that- just the fact that He has blessed you with a life and made you a NORMAL person with arms, legs and your five senses should be MORE than enough for you to be in sajdah thanking Him for his countless blessings.
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you know nowadays a lot of the threads end up in hostility. u cant change ones beliefs sometimes u mite take offensive but hey as a good muslim u have to respect ones beliefs.
I read in a book "No god but God" that in the beginning when islam was being founded, they only had the rite to do jihad or torture the Quraysh whom were trying to tear down and abbuse Prophet Muhammed (PBUH) but after that it states that you should not intefere with onez beliefs muslim or non muslim as long as you follow your own.
If me and you appreciate the fact that yes we have problems to face but then again still say Ap ka lakh lakh shukar hai Allah Mian then thats us just understanding something many people dont. we are thankful for a lot. God put good and bad people on this earth for a reason. kya patha maybe we can also be put into the "bad people" category.
if any one else is hurt and blames Allah then our position would be to help them and guide them and be positive which will result them in showing that there is hope for them instead of being offended
that would jsut make them more depressed and upset.
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and niksik jee.. the theory i have with these stuborn and arrogant rishtidar is SMILE AND WAVE!! they have something to say that you knwo they are just trying to bother you. u be like OO woww COOL newayss so how them yankees doing.
its very subtle and humble from your side, but dekhainn unkaaa khoon kaisay jaltha hai!!! :p
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and niksik jee.. the theory i have with these stuborn and arrogant rishtidar is SMILE AND WAVE!! they have something to say that you knwo they are just trying to bother you. u be like OO woww COOL newayss so how them yankees doing. its very subtle and humble from your side, but dekhainn unkaaa khoon kaisay jaltha hai!!! :p
You're right K.
Thanks for the advice.
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dunnp knw thts i shudnt, but we do ecpect him 2 at least deliver sum kind of justice, sum protection 4rm the bad, i never got that so i blame allah
- Allah ONLY help those, who help them selves.
- Be happy with Allah's will
Now repeat this thing 100 times and register it in u'r mind. Trust me as humans we think we r the only smart a$$ around ... but we r not. :)
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ur welcome and good luck :)
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How do you handle sneaky questions from relatives, and unfair criticisms and accusations? Or unfair standards and comparisons?
If saying something to them doesn't stop them, then do you just ignore them or do you pray to Allah for justice?
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rishtaydaaroN ka kaam hota hai khap daalna aur siyapa paana, aur chuwwi ghentay sariaaN choRna , jab aik mashraqi pakistani larki apnay praye ghar jaati hai to usko apni saas say lay kar sussar tak sab kay saath utna hi muqabla karna parta hai, jitna aik foji jang kay duraan apni jaan hatheli par rakh kar kaRta hai. Faraq siraf itna hai kay foji jang jeet sakta hai, magar aik dulhan kabhi saas say jang nahi jeet sakti, warna ghar mai emergency naafiz ho jaati hai, mitha paa kay.
Is liye mashraqqi larkioN ko chahiye kay aise questions say apna blood pressure high na karaiN ,aur star plus kay dramay dekhna shuru kar daiN. Allah barkat daalay ga.
Shukriya.
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^Your posts are very offensive to me. You should not be blaming Allah SWT in every thread- it's such an insult. I understand that you have gone through alot and so have many other people including me at various stages of life. But regardless of that, I don't see anyone else ranting the same thing over and over again. Okay so you haven't gotten your justice yet- WHAT kind of justice are you looking for? And how do you know that people who have done wrong to you aren't suffering themselves?
It's just so petty and shallow how you always talk like that- just the fact that He has blessed you with a life and made you a NORMAL person with arms, legs and your five senses should be MORE than enough for you to be in sajdah thanking Him for his countless blessings.
excuse me u go on about how it is offensive to you, do u knw me as a person NO!!! so plz this forum is abt saying wht u think. I'm nt going to sit and praise and say stuff becos its wht other ppl want 2 hear, im saying wht i think, and i agree it's wrong wht i think. i'm trying my best nt to feel that way. But im not going to be in denial about how i feel or lie. I fu dont like wht i wrote don;t read it!!!
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- Allah ONLY help those, who help them selves.
- Be happy with Allah's will
Now repeat this thing 100 times and register it in u'r mind. Trust me as humans we think we r the only smart a$$ around ... but we r not. :)
yeh i knw we r in reality stupid and do nothing but complain, its hard 2 b happy with allah's will but i agree with u that we have to accept that. I'm trying it's hard , it doesnt help whn u have certain ppl that will be 1st to stand and preach to you, about this and that have no words of encouragment whtsoever, but thanks NaMaan for your encouraging words:)
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rishtaydaaroN ka kaam hota hai khap daalna aur siyapa paana, aur chuwwi ghentay sariaaN choRna , jab aik mashraqi pakistani larki apnay praye ghar jaati hai to usko apni saas say lay kar sussar tak sab kay saath utna hi muqabla karna parta hai, jitna aik foji jang kay duraan apni jaan hatheli par rakh kar kaRta hai. Faraq siraf itna hai kay foji jang jeet sakta hai, magar aik dulhan kabhi saas say jang nahi jeet sakti, warna ghar mai emergency naafiz ho jaati hai, mitha paa kay.
Is liye mashraqqi larkioN ko chahiye kay aise questions say apna blood pressure high na karaiN ,aur star plus kay dramay dekhna shuru kar daiN. Allah barkat daalay ga.
Shukriya.
ASN bhai, considering that you are not married yet (I think), you are quite wise. Allah aap ko bohot achchi bivi dey and may you both be best for each other, Insha'Allah. You are very understanding.
I am one of the lucky few as I have very kind in-laws. We do have difference of opinions sometimes but we mostly sort them out without major conflicts. That makes life so much easier. Alhamdulilah.
I started this thread because yesterday my dad told me about some wicked relatives of ours who were saying bad things about my sister. But today I feel so much better. Thanks!
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yeh i knw we r in reality stupid and do nothing but complain, its hard 2 b happy with allah's will but i agree with u that we have to accept that. I'm trying it's hard , it doesnt help whn u have certain ppl that will be 1st to stand and preach to you, about this and that have no words of encouragment whtsoever, but thanks NaMaan for your encouraging words:)
Hope all gets OK for you Tweety. Sometimes we don't understand Allah's timings, but He does look out for us and rewards us for our patience and sincerity. May Allah relieve you of your challenges.:)
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you had an ENTIRE thread open about how you dont have any beliefs/imaan left- what did people do there? they advised you and yet, i see you saying the same thing again today. and then you say people don't encourage you etc etc. i dont care what kind of person you are, all i know is that religion is a huge deal and you cannot be making absurd comments like that about Allah swt like you do constantly. it's getting way too annoying- if you have a problem, go see an imam and he will give you all the 'encouragement' you want, atleast save us from reading all the insults. i dont think anyone telling you nicely here would do any good anyway, you're still gonna be writing in another thread what you did here. people like you cannot change their thinking until they want to THEMSELVES. may Allah guide you the right way.
excuse me u go on about how it is offensive to you, do u knw me as a person NO!!! so plz this forum is abt saying wht u think. I'm nt going to sit and praise and say stuff becos its wht other ppl want 2 hear, im saying wht i think, and i agree it's wrong wht i think. i'm trying my best nt to feel that way. But im not going to be in denial about how i feel or lie. I fu dont like wht i wrote don;t read it!!!
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you had an ENTIRE thread open about how you dont have any beliefs/imaan left- what did people do there? they advised you and yet, i see you saying the same thing again today. and then you say people don't encourage you etc etc. i dont care what kind of person you are, all i know is that religion is a huge deal and you cannot be making absurd comments like that about Allah swt like you do constantly. it's getting way too annoying- if you have a problem, go see an imam and he will give you all the 'encouragement' you want, atleast save us from reading all the insults. i dont think anyone telling you nicely here would do any good anyway, you're still gonna be writing in another thread what you did here. people like you cannot change their thinking until they want to THEMSELVES. may Allah guide you the right way.
do u have a problem with me opening an entire thread??? and if i say absurd coments wht is it 2 u. U arent going to be punished 4 it so wht is YOUR problem. If u dnt like wht i write and think u r holier than us all , that is absolutely ure opinion and i respect that, but feel free not to reply my threads.
Thnks
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And pls not divert this thread away 4rm the original topic, i apologize if i did that , lets get back to how do deal with sneaky relatives:)
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lol so just because i have respect for my religion, it's called being holier than thou? so if someone came to this thread insulting someone you have a lot of respect for, lets say your family, you're gonna ignore it just because they can say whatever they feel like? you have some serious issues to deal with, i suggest you start now.
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lol so just because i have respect for my religion, it's called being holier than thou? so if someone came to this thread insulting someone you have a lot of respect for, lets say your family, you're gonna ignore it just because they can say whatever they feel like? you have some serious issues to deal with, i suggest you start now.
see youre doing it again. Its nt the fact that its ure respect 4 religion that makes u holier than thou, actually its really good u respect ure religion. U only have to read the last line of your post , to prove u act holier than thou.
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i still stick by my words- get help.
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i still stick by my words- get help.
yeh clearly ull say that , but u dnt knw me, so don;t tell me wht to do
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Shay jee seeing the person that you are you shoudl have read the quran because u have so much resepct for Islam.
knowing that uve read the Quran do look into a part.
\part where it says to respect what others have to say and look away if you feel that your religion has been insulted. rite now you are bashing some1 to preach 2 somethign they may not want to, which in a way does make Allah mian kinda upset.
so do look into that and there shud not b a reason to raise conflict in public. if you 2 have probolems plz pm each other. im trying to read the posts and advice niksik is getting not fites between 2 ppl whom realy cant stop being a lil childish
and tweety jee i agree back to dealing with snotty families UFF!