Sneaky relatives

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How do you handle sneaky questions from relatives, and unfair criticisms and accusations? Or unfair standards and comparisons?

If saying something to them doesn’t stop them, then do you just ignore them or do you pray to Allah for justice?

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:D

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What's that supposed to mean TLK?

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Ignore them. It's so hard to deal with all the desi family politics and it's just never ending! So for your own sanity and peace of mind, ignorance is BLISS.

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That's what I always do. Sometimes when the incident is fresh, you just feel really mad...eventually it boils over. Thanks.

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Just umm and ahh at them, and be really vauge with specific details.

Or kill with kindness. Its the best way.

Revenge is always God's.

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Great answer.
Especially the last line.

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yeap ignorence is the best punishment!! however if they do something to u..dnt do anything or say anything ..trust me that era is gone..ppl dnt do any harm to eachother by saying things...these r jst pendu paki women thngs..

if u wanna do something..than stay quite for a lil bit.....and once they think everything is finishd......then u can start ur own action or whtever u wanna do!!!!!

does it help u?

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Definitely helps. Thanks.

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i am glad tht we r not in pakistan anymore..most of our sneaky relatives live back home...and whenever they do call..i pick up..say salamaekum..and tell em to talk to ami.
na bura suno..na bura kaho..na bura hoga.

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hahah same...but in our case they dnt call us we gt to call them ocasionallly hehehe

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Yeah, back home these sneaky things happen all the time but the people there are immune. It's us here that get bothered!

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now is this relatives..or in laws? :chai:

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this time it’s my end of the family :frowning:

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bless u darling

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Niksik that is true that we get bothered by things and they are so used to it nothing happens to them....and when u have to live in them its a whole new story....you just have to listen and listen until they get tired of talking.....then u go cry about it.....

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And then there are no results except bad feelings and waste of energy and emotions!

Relatives. Are there any advantages? Yeah, some are good, but most you're just stuck with!

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Niksik... get hubby to stand up to them :D

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stay far away 4rm them, like realllllly far , avoid them as much as possible. We have family like that they started out being sneaky but it turned nasty, we turned a bkind eye, thinking they were family and that we shud forgive them. I prayed that Allah show them guidance. It just git nastier, allah did no justice, and they continue to be evil. But hey now that our family has lost so much they shud b happy. So plz run a mile 4rm family like that, i don knw mayb its a test 4rm allah, i expected justice 4rm here or even sum pritection 4rm family like that but i got nuthing.

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^^Wow u kinda blaming Allah for every thing here. Why is that ???