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well redvelvet ur mixing quite a few things up there,,,sum i agree wv n sum i disagree wv...if a girl drinks, its jus as bad as if a guy drinks from religious point of view but i wud expect parents to be more strict with the girl. u know y,,not bcz of religion or bcz its more wrong but bcz of different consequences for girls n guys of the same actions(sex, drinking, staying out till late etc) n associated societal pressures n consequences.
if the consequences r different for gals n guys, then d parents reactions or d detterents dey put put in place shud reflect that. Therefore, parents wud be stupid if they were not more strict with the girl bcz a gal is more likely to get drunk n get pregnant, gets raped etc or gets reputation. A guy he got drunk n had sex outside marriage, equally bad sin but less worldly consequences. So, girls have to be more cautious as there r things attached to them sleepin arnd n drinkin.....it makes common sense that parents shud be more strict wv their galz.
on the other hand, when it cums to women's rights such as when a marriage breaks down, girls get d blame etc, das wrong or forced marriages or freedom to education or other injustices etc. I think there shud be zero tolerance for dat sorta behaviour and things need to change, quick.
Sum of d inequalities r der bcz asian culture is patriarchal n values/morals r set by men but sum of it is different because men n women r inherently different,,,,u av to accept sum natural difference like u wnt see a girl making a guy pregnant,,,feminist wud still argue wv god y u made us go thru this for nine months n men dint deal wv it... but,,,for now...just get on wv it!
You list a lot of examples as to why parents should be stricter with daughters-- pregnancy, rape, etc.
However, do you fail to remember that it takes TWO people to create a baby? It requires the perpetrator (most often a man) to COMMIT the crime of rape against the woman? Why do you ignore the OTHER half of these scenarios and focus on the woman? It's more ok for a guy to go out and drink, and maybe get a girl pregnant or commit a rape, than it is for a girl to be a victim of rape or to become pregnant? What sort of rationale is this?
And I have never heard a feminist say anything about complaining to God as to why women go through pregnancy and men don't. That is incredibly absurd. Please stop your insults against feminists, for we only reflect Islamic values, and those values held standard as basic human rights.
