hmm hmm i never understand these feminists. what do u expect? Who do u blame? parents? why?.
Feminism is the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes. That seems pretty Islamic to me...so... I don't see why you would consider it a bad thing.
Girls n guys r inherently different...god made us different. A girl is more vulnerable than a guy.
Playing devil's advocate for a moment, how are men and women inherently different? What do you consider makes one a man, or one a woman? Why do you consider that women are more vulnerable than men (and why do you consider this to be a relevant point to the subject of this thread which is asking if its more acceptable for men to have hidden past deeds but not women)?What exactly is does this vulnerability entail? And if we are more vulnerable, would it not be because our culture perpetuates this notion and instills this belief in us?
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Equality doesnt mean vr same, this is jus a fallacy perpetuated by capitalist system to cause more divisions. Ofcourse girl will get the blame more than a guy.
Capitalism.. is an economic policy. Equality means that all are equally held accountable for the same actions (among other things). Giving preference to forgive based on genitalia is discrimination at it's highest form, and Allah does NOT make a distinction in punishment OR prohibition for zina for men OR women.
This is how world views the relationships between girls n guys, like it or not. However, these r the rules of the world so GALS STOP COMPLAINING. If i was a gal, i wud behave according to the rules of the game. its like would u b blaming the striker for scorin a goal or the goal keeper for not stoppin the ball? not v politically correct but this is how most guys wud view it n d society wud view a relationship, even other gals.
No. These aren't the rules of the world. These are the rules of a highly partriarchal, shame based society where women have less status than men. Many cultures do not share in this prejudice.
Why should we stop complaining? Why should one not complain when there is such blatant injustice? If you are convicted of a crime you are innocent of, do you not appeal? Do you do nothing in the face of genocide, because you as one person can't change it?
can u change it? No, feminists r just a bunch of rebels without cause.
For guys who commit sins, when we die, God will punish guys aswell.
Yes, we can change it. We rebel against the social norm that is not only unislamic, it is in violation of what would be basic rights for human beings. We have one cause, to end injustice against women (which again, is in the spirit of Islam). And while change has not permeated Pakistan to a large degree yet, we have changed a lot in the west. It is ONLY when people stop trying that they fail. I'm not sure if it's pure laziness, or simply not caring that would cause one to not try.
God also asks us to hold every person accountable for social ills, regardless of sex. God does not say that it is worse for a woman to sin than for a man to sin, nor does God say to favor the son over the daughter. So why disagree with God?
However, Issues like forced marriages are where the problem is in asian culture and thats when i think this disparity becomes very wrong n totally unacceptable and we need to educate people and support the victims. Also, girls who r not allowed to get educated etc. Although, u cud argue this r all interlinked issues but u cant change d above one but u can change d bottom ones as they r clearly wrong, i tink.
What do you want to educate people about? What do you think feminists are trying to do other than educate? You seem to flip flop around on your opinion of this. And forced marriages are a SYMPTOM of this social disease. When you elevate the status of men, you devalue the status of women. Unless men are held equally accountable for all misdeeds as women, and until we respect women and men EQUALLY, these problems will always remain.
Don't merely seek to put a bandaid over the wound and not treat the underlying infection. Otherwise, it will never go away.
