Single women & married guys

Why in the world do some women only feel attracted to married guys and must must must have em no matter what? What possesses a woman to want to be the mistress? Dont they have any conscience? Dont they feel the least bit guilty? Whatever happened to morals? Values?

Some women are so far from being proper ladies, its just sickening.

This is more of a rant, but feel free to share your two cents.

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I know what you mean.

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As much as i agree with you...
what makes a married man want to go to another woman and he must have her no matter what?

What abou tmarried women falling for other guys?

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Yes sara, either way… if its the single woman with the married man or the married woman with the single man.. its just soo disgusting! I’ve always felt like women should be able to empathize more with other females, but its often a woman who will ruin another woman’s life in the form of an affair. Yes its both the man and womans fault, but if the dude is married, a woman shouldnt even think twice about him in that way… dont give him the opportunity…no matter how hot or rich he may be or how much they “click”… The same woman would probably die if her man/hubby played her, but yet she does it so easily to another woman… why?? I dunno mann but the whole extra marital affairs thing seems soo ridiculously common nowadays, even within our own community… its hard to be able to trust anyone anymore :hinna:

I guess apart from one I havent heard this kind of story so I guess I cannot generalize nd if I think logically then the husband stealers go for I guess materialistic reason...I'd say

:).....Sara is right......in Marriage relations...........it is a two way street......:(.......and usually when one party is not content wth what they got.........
the "Toms" and/or the "Cats" are on the Prowl.....:(

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In a perfect world, things like this should not happen. However, they do. A lot. I can't speak from a man's perspective but women who do stuff like this are usually insecure in their own marriages or lives, look for stuff they don't have in their relationships and use their married status as a comfort zone and allow themselves to slip into their secret fantasies. I also wonder why single women get invloved with married men...can't say.

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Its because thats what makes headlines and thats what people like to talk about.

Single woman and non-married guy (prevalent) -> normal
Single woman and married guy (rare) -> talk of the town

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I don't think thats true at all. I for one would NEVER even look at a married man.

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I didnt say ALL women... I said SOME. There's certainly no denying that these kinda skanks dont exist. Desi or nondesi, it happens everywhere.

You were still married while talking to your ex though and still thinking of marrying him were you not? Emotional infidelity or physical, its all the same.

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no strings attached?
only thing i can come up with.

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Its unfortunate people behave in such a way. But all blame can't be placed on the mistress. I agree that how come these home wreckers dont go for another single guy, instead of chasing after married men. However the blame goes on the married men, she couldn't have an affair without the guy letting her. What I mean to say is the guy is married, he is supposed to be loyal/trustworthy to his wife. He should be responsible.....but if he is out prowling for a good time, only so much blame can be put on the mistress. But whoever it is, its horrible. I don't know anyone in situation, but on the radio, they were discussing this topic & they have some very deranged people calling in with comments...complete lack of religion/morals/values...etc

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I think some women (those who are attracted to married men) come in a couple of flavors. There are those who are attracted to married men because they are the ones who have been taken, they are the best. Single men are the leftovers. If they see a man who is a wonderful great husband, it makes him attractive and they want this for themselves. Perhaps they go into a relationship thinking that the guy will leave his wife. Then there are some women who are attracted to married men because they can have a "fling" and not worry about getting caught up in a relationship. They know its not permanent and like it that way.

Either way, its sad. There are no nice endings to these stories.

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Because they dont treat others the way they want to be treated themselves!


True.I hve heard of you know the story of the ex keeping in touch as"friends" and ultimately breaking up the marriage…buncha husband/wife stealers…and the married men/women who just have fun from botth sides…such KKKK’s…:frusty2:

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Experience? It's in human nature to eat the forbidden fruit. I am replying using my PDA, will reply in detail later.

Are you serious? I think it's the other way round. Married men (especially muslim men... infact majority of muslim men) are not only attracted to single women but they also try everything they can to get the single women's attention. In my opinion, the reason for this (apart from the other reasons I do not know) is that they think there is 'nothing wrong' in taking interest in other single women inspite of being married because 'ISLAM' allows them to have 4 wives at a time. Some of them can go to any extent to have the woman they are attracted to, in their lives even if they're not looking at it Islamically (4 marriages).

IMO, non-muslim men are serious in their commitment. Muslim men on the other hand, take their wives for granted. That everything is permissible because they're men!

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Yes I know, it goes both ways. I wrote specifically about women because this was a rant stemming from a “secret” which a really good friend told me about herself. She always managed to steal other people’s bfs in a very clever way which didnt make her look so bad.. more like the shoulder to cry on turned lover for the guys in rocky rel’ps.. and now shes started seeing a dude who has a common law marriage and a kid with the lady… its true, some women just always want other people’s men… I knew a man who cheated on his wife and treated her with filth… had all the affairs possible in the world with women who didnt even come close to how good his wife was… eventually married one of his flings, and it turns out that she now cheated on him withh…voila! Another married man! :hoonh:

What kind of a stupid, stupid statement is that?!!!

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because we are so irresistible :D