I live in Holland. And my son told me that the kids who beat him up this time are Turkish. The kids who beat him up the other time, more than once, were coloured people, black, they beat up my child and asked their Turkish friends to help them beat up my son. Then when I had had enough, when once again my son came home crying, I went outside and yelled at the kid who had started it that it should all stop and my son should be left alone. That's it. Then a few days later, he came to my home, in front of my door, with two women, I don't know if they are his family or family friends, she just asked me if I'm the mother and when I replied yes, she just started to beat my face and even came in my home, she was beating and kicking me on my kitchen floor, I couldn't do anything, then the other who was with her, started pulling my hair. They just yelled I should stay away from that kid, while I had done nothing but tell him to stop beating and kicking my son! The neighbour who lives down me, came and pulled them off me, after he pulled them off me, I did manage to do something back, I pulled the hair back of the one who was pulling mine. I don't know how to fight people, I couldn't even do it properly when my parents made me and my brothers take karate lessons during childhood, I had stopped after a while without much progress. I wish I could have beaten and kicked them back. I felt so helpless. Even more when at the police station they first didn't let me press charges. I was so angry, I went back and only then they agreed to press charges, but only after an appointment. And then, when they first wrote to me that I should call them about it, and they said the person who told me to call wasn't there but would call me back, about that case, but that police officer never did call, then I realised they weren't going to take it serious. They won't even punish them.
That's why I know it's not much use going to my local police. I'm going to take a lie detector test. One of the things is going to be about those two women beating me up. I'm going to prove with that test that they had beaten me without telling me why, without any reason at all. I'm going to send those results to a different police station. Will that be enough? I don't know. You know, I had told my police, after I was beaten up, that the neighbour downstairs who had pulled those two women off me probably had a better look at them, since he wasn't beaten up. I couldn't even properly describe them. I didn't pay attention to their clothes. The police officer who was typing what I said, kept insisting I should tell her what those women looked like, but while my face was being beaten, I kept seeing white coloured spots, so I just said white when she insisted. But really, I don't know as I had told her, what clothes they were wearing. One of them just started to beat me up immediatily after asking if I was the mother. They were black people. I don't understand what their problem is, why they came after me.
My children say the kids who threw the eggs are all Turkish. I do know that a Turkish kid kept ringing the doorbell and tried to make my son come outside, I know who that child is. He said he wanted to play with my son and then, when my son came out last time, the other kids came to him to start a fight. He helped those other kids to beat up my son, by calling my son outside. Then he just watched the other kids tease my son and even beat or kick him a few times.
They all help each other to harrass us. I didn't start any fight with anyone here. From the moment I moved here, most people were unfriendly towards me. I tried to talk, to get to know a few people. With some I had a pleasant conversation, but then when I saw them again, they refused to even greet me. Most people refused to greet me back and instead gave me angry looks. Even at the school of my children. I don't know most of these people. I do know a few Pakistanis who were family friends when I was growing up. But even they were behaving strangely and even a few times very unfriendly towards me, only towards me.
From my side, I tried to talk to people here, I kept smiling at them and greeting them very friendly, with some I tried to have conversations. I wanted to have friends, get to know people. But nobody here wanted to be my friend. Most of them didn't even want to greet me. I have no idea why. I certainly didn't fight with them. I didn't insult them. Yet they were mostly unfriendly towards me. So I accepted the situation. When people don't want to be my friend, I stay away. I stopped greeting everyone and smiling at them after a few months when I realised the situation wouldn't change anyway. What would you do, if you smile and greet every day and they don't greet you back, but instead just give you angry looks? Without any reason, while you don't even know them? I have never started any fight with them, when they were unpolite towards me, I just ignored them and stopped greeting them. So what exactly is their problem anyway?
Allah knows why they are doing this to me. I've quietly accepted everything all those years. Only in 2007 and in 2008 I tried to get justice. Then I stopped. I gave up. It doesn't seem to be much use.