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^Yeah sort of. 
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I don't know , right now I want him to go without me, may be it's a good idea to have a break from each other for a while. I'm really upset and I think I need counselling. I've been under stress and depression for the past 2 years and I'm not coimng out of it. It's effecting everything, my relationship, my mental state. But my husband don't let me take anti-depressants.
what is the reason of depression?
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what is the reason of depression?
I don't know...I feel I'm a bad muslim and I think I'm losing my religion. I'm in utter need of spirituality.
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R u 2 Related ?
I'm the hubby :)
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and also the fact that I'm gonna be 30 soon and I haven't accomplished anything.
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I don't know...I feel I'm a bad muslim and I think I'm losing my religion. I'm in utter need of spirituality.
Who are you to consider yourself a bad muslim.
Remember, Allah always like whoever return to Him.
It is your evil thought, which come in your mind and stop you to return back to Allah.
Just get a wadu, and let see what happens with you.
if you dont work and stay home, then it is better to start a good hobby like photography, designing, collecting stamps, coins, gardening etc.
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Who are you to consider yourself a bad muslim. Remember, Allah always like whoever return to Him. It is your evil thought, which come in your mind and stop you to return back to Allah. Just get a wadu, and let see what happens with you. if you dont work and stay home, then it is better to start a good hobby like photography, designing, collecting stamps, coins, gardening etc.
I already have so many hobbies and I do pray.....sometimes. I do feel the peace and sanity when I pray for 2 or 3 days but then I leave it.
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Pysah bro, bribe her.
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what is the reason of depression?
My wife is a "bird" - she cannot be caged (metaphor). Any attempt to do so will cause problems ... I'm trying to work out solutions to work from home by starting up my own business and employing others, but it is a slow process and she is going spare in the wait ... and I am getting targeted with much of the despair and sometimes I can't absorb it and sometimes I give some back ... which is why I apologise on a regular basis ... LOL ... I hope she finds more strength soon ... In a funny sort of way what she says makes sense ... when she is happy she relies on me ... but then she realises that she does not want to be dependent and that gives her the feeling of being caged and hence she pushes me away in order to be able to stand on her own feet ... but I keep saying that she can stand up and fly without pushing me away ... :(
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Alhamdulilah, you have kids, husband and home.
look at them who have nothing, but still living.
you should thankful to Allah. I assume that you have no issue in your life.
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I wanna go and live in Pakistan. I don't belong here but it's not in my family specially children's interest.
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Yes exactly. My life is utterly boring.
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hareem don't make him food for a couple of days he'll say sorry regardless of his fault or not :D
Jokes aside..I don;t think you two have problems with EACH OTHER...its just the difficult circumstances which will eventually go away iA
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hareem don't make him food for a couple of days he'll say sorry regardless of his fault or not :D
Jokes aside..I don;t think you two have problems with EACH OTHER...its just the difficult circumstances which will eventually go away iA
still i think i need Prozac.
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Finding the right friends for her is proving to be quite difficult ... One person who is local to us is so paranoid about the community she does not even go outside without a car ... Since my missus does not drive it pins her to home ....
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people are leaving pakistan, and you want to go there.
tumhain pata hai kay kitni bar load-shedding hoti hai. light to produce hoti nahi hai wahan.
bajaye isskay kay tum apni family ko new country main sponsor kardo takay woh to kuch achi zindagi guzar lain. istarah tumhain wapis janay ka khayal bhi nahi aaye ga.
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still i think i need Prozac.
keep away from that missus!
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Finding the right friends for her is proving to be quite difficult ... One person who is local to us is so paranoid about the community she does not even go outside without a car ... Since my missus does not drive it pins her to home ....
no, it's the kids that pin me down...i need a nanny if not prozac.
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and also the fact that I'm gonna be 30 soon and I haven't accomplished anything.
Mahshallah Both of you seem like very informative Muslims, Specially Psyah........ You have found a nice Muslim husband who wud be with you for rest of ur life and make sure you arent left behind when he takes each step Towards ALLAH. Isnt this a great Accomplishment ?
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apni family ko sponsor ker doon? yeh kya baat hui?