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My husband is taking us to Birmingham on two days' trip, he has booked the hotel and everything but since I'm really angry with him, should I cancel it and stay at home or should I go with him?
Birmingham?
Pffffttt nothing to see there!!!
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I don't know...I feel I'm a bad muslim and I think I'm losing my religion. I'm in utter need of spirituality.
If you wish for light, be ready to receive light.
Nourish your ego and be deprived of light.
If you wish to find a way out of this prison,
do not turn away; bow down in worship and draw near.
Before you judge my actions
Lord, I pray you will forgive.
Before my heart has broken,
will you help my soul to live?
Before my eyes are covered,
Will you let me see your face?
Before my feet are tired,
May I reach your dwelling place?
You will watch me Lord, I hold.
Before I throw my mantle
Will you take me in your fold?
Before my work is over,
You, my Lord, will right the wrong.
Before you play your music,
Will you let me sing my song?
By the mercy of God Paradise has eight doors — one of those is the door of repentance, child.
All the others are sometimes open, sometimes shut; but the door of repentance is never closed.
Come seize the opportunity: the door is open
Many prayers are declined because of the rank odor of a corrupt heart rising through the beautiful words. Let the words be wrong, but the meaning right. That flawed utterance is dearer to God.
and also the fact that I'm gonna be 30 soon and I haven't accomplished anything.
Take a moment and just look at your kids. Don't think, just look at them. Are they not a miracle that you have helped with? I've seen your blog, MashaAllah that is nothing less than any other accomplishment.
And if you have any aspirations, 30 is in no way a point of no return. You still have a whole lot of life in you. There's no stopping you.
Sometimes it helps to just take a step back and go over your life. A to Z.
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thanks for making me feel better. 
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no, it's the kids that pin me down...i need a nanny if not prozac.
oh come on, it is normal just get with those ladies who are in same phase like you.
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apni family ko sponsor ker doon? yeh kya baat hui?
why do you want to go Pakistan?
mera matlab hai kay unko apnay pass bula loo immigration kay through.
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oh come on, it is normal just get with those ladies who are in same phase like you.
there's no one like me...literally. I educate my kids at home and I think I need a nanny just for 2 hours a day thrice a week so I can have a nice break.
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there's no one like me...literally. I educate my kids at home and I think I need a nanny just for 2 hours a day thrice a week so I can have a nice break.
have you ever put this idea on table with your husband?
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If you wish for light, be ready to receive light. Nourish your ego and be deprived of light. If you wish to find a way out of this prison, do not turn away; bow down in worship and draw near.
Before you judge my actions Lord, I pray you will forgive. Before my heart has broken, will you help my soul to live? Before my eyes are covered, Will you let me see your face? Before my feet are tired, May I reach your dwelling place? You will watch me Lord, I hold. Before I throw my mantle Will you take me in your fold? Before my work is over, You, my Lord, will right the wrong. Before you play your music, Will you let me sing my song?
By the mercy of God Paradise has eight doors — one of those is the door of repentance, child. All the others are sometimes open, sometimes shut; but the door of repentance is never closed. Come seize the opportunity: the door is open
Many prayers are declined because of the rank odor of a corrupt heart rising through the beautiful words. Let the words be wrong, but the meaning right. That flawed utterance is dearer to God.
Take a moment and just look at your kids. Don't think, just look at them. Are they not a miracle that you have helped with? I've seen your blog, MashaAllah that is nothing less than any other accomplishment.
And if you have any aspirations, 30 is in no way a point of no return. You still have a whole lot of life in you. There's no stopping you.
Sometimes it helps to just take a step back and go over your life. A to Z.
Thank you. It's nice. I need to print this out and look at it everyday for 5 mins.
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have you ever put this idea on table with your husband?
no...i guess he doesn't have any time for my silly suggestions.
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Birmingham?
Pffffttt nothing to see there!!!
I like it because it reminds me of Pakistan.
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there's no one like me...literally. I educate my kids at home and I think I need a nanny just for 2 hours a day thrice a week so I can have a nice break.
Why are you home schooling your kids? Send them to school and you'll have plenty of time for yourself.
My sister would literally go mad if her children would stop going to school and be around her 24/7. So I think you need to consider the above option.
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no...i guess he doesn't have any time for my silly suggestions.
Look at positive thing and be happy. I know few ladies overwhelm with kids. However, you can take parenting classes.
Dont get them on your head.
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I like it because it reminds me of Pakistan.
Thats an insult to Pakistan. :D
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Finding the right friends for her is proving to be quite difficult ... O*ne person who is local to us is so paranoid about the community she does not even go outside without a car* ... Since my missus does not drive it pins her to home ....
She is the most laziest and pessimistic person I've seen in my life, can't believe she's a graduate. She wants me to make the backyard concrete so I don't have to do the gardening. She hates walking and everything else that keeps one healthy and positive. I don't think meeting her is a good idea.
I stay fine being alone but I never get a chance to be alone. I have to take my kids everywhere I go and when going to the mall during weekdays people think I'm bunking.
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Why are you home schooling your kids? Send them to school and you'll have plenty of time for yourself.
My sister would literally go mad if her children would stop going to school and be around her 24/7. So I think you need to consider the above option.
One day I started reading books written on modern education by John Taylor Gatto, Dorothy Sayers and others and I tried to find a school that would teach Classics but there isn't any except the one in Berkshire where Prince William and Harry went to.
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dont care about people.
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dont care about people.
I don't. But I still need 2 hours a day free.
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One day I started reading books written on modern education by John Taylor Gatto, Dorothy Sayers and others and I tried to find a school that would teach Classics but there isn't any except the one in Berkshire where Prince William and Harry went to.
LOL Classics? There is so much to education/school than particular subject. You can still send your kids to school and do part time teaching for classics at home. I think your kids are missing out so much and its pretty evident that the whole system is messing you up as well.
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Oh well, I'm alright. I think I just need to have some patience. Now that I've written all my concerns down, I don't think there's anything I can't handle, I just need to be strong. Thanks all for listening to me.