Re: Wrong girl for brother
im not going to my mom to rat about the gf. i am going to my mom to tell her what my brother is doing. how is that blaming the girl alone? i blame him also. if u havent read what i wrote before, he is doing these things too and that is the main reason i want my mom to talk to him. he was NEVER like that before. i have lived my entire life with him, if he was ever that kinda person i wud have let it be. but u think i cant see what shes doing? she has influenced my br in the most horrible way and thats where my problem is. why do u think i keep saying that my parents will be hurt if they find out? BECAUSE my brother himself is getting sucked into this. this is not how they have raised us to be and sadly hes the only one in the family who is doing this and it needs to end.
implications in your all posts clearly suggests that you are putting all the blame on the girl... and i m not the only one who felt that way.... probably u need to re-read all the posts.
anyways .. like few people suggested above, i m strongly against the idea of 'you should let him on his own'..you must NOT. he is your brother and his one wrong move will not only effect him, but also to your whole family. do your best to stop him. and involve your parents as soon as possible.