Re: shia sunni wedding quesion
I think Marriage Registration is computerized in big cities !
i c... so through the nikah khawan it can be checked if it was a shia nikkah or sunni nikah that means....
yes ..go for the professional !
^^ Coz ... normally kids follow aba jaan sect/religion or they had too. Whichever you prefer !
would nikkah by a sunni molvi change abba jan's sect to sunnism?
would nikkah by a sunni molvi change abba jan's sect to sunnism?
In the future it will create problem when Abba Jaan suddenly found that their Nikkah is done by Sunni rules.... and then few family members will be start poppin up.... with ridiculous statements ... etc.. Just imagining !
Lusi, case is different here, Larki apney ami/aba sey laar k shaadi kar rahi hia. Its better to follow the guy sect coz of Pakistan enviornment/thinking of people.. !
Re: shia sunni wedding quesion
Lusi, listen, boy has some relatives who are very Kattar shia.. boy's parents are OK with sunni nikah but are going to tell his relatives that he did shia nikah... his relatives are so Kattar that they have said that if his nikah is sunni then his kids will be najayaz and they will not accept Nikah... boy does not want in future his kids should hear such things..and those relatives are desperate enough to check records and do boy's badnami in whole shia community if he does sunni nikah.. now do you understand?
oh bhai jee kya probelm lai kar beht gae hoo...i don't think koi problem ho ga waisai...nikkah should be done according to guy wish...not girl wish. nasal baap sai banti hai...samaj ayee...jab larka aur larki razi tu kya karae ga kazi...app apnae parents ko bolain zyda zid na karain...aur beti ko dua dain bas. :)
i am agree with you. but pata hai agar sunni larki apny mazhab ya akeedy ki paki hai na to prob baad mein creat hon gi...... i mean jab kids ho jaein gay ya phir mazhbi rasoom k hawaly say.. anyway Allah dono ko khush rakhy
NO! Not at all. Itna darpok hai tu kisi shia larki sy shadi ker ly 
or jab ye nasal bigar gai tu agy ki nasal ka itn afikar akhir kion{suhail waraich is here)
Bat mazhabi rusoom ki nahi mazhab ko tu donon goli mar chuky:DBat yahan duniya ki hu rahi hy ky log kiya kahain gy:rotfl:
Re: shia sunni wedding quesion
i cant believe some people think problems of others are funny and so easily use insults language :)
i cant believe some people think problems of others are funny and so easily use insults language :)
hey Question, sorry bro if you are offended by any of my post, .. aur kesi ka kuch keh nahi sakta.
Sorry once again !..
I think in this case it is better to do the both type of nikkah...every one will be happy.
Lusi, listen, boy has some relatives who are very Kattar shia.. boy's parents are OK with sunni nikah but are going to tell his relatives that he did shia nikah... his relatives are so Kattar that they have said that if his nikah is sunni then his kids will be najayaz and they will not accept Nikah... boy does not want in future his kids should hear such things..and those relatives are desperate enough to check records and do boy's badnami in whole shia community if he does sunni nikah.. now do you understand?
maybe it is no one's business what kind of nikkah couple had as far as they had a nikkah. Goodlord! May God help and guide these desi people.
Honestly, people who love gossiping will find something to gossip on and bad mouth the other person. If one really cares about their stance on something then they have be strong and ignore what people say or think.
Anyway, sorry in my opinion all this shia molvi or sunni molvi stuff is BS because in Islam you don't even need a molvi to read nikkah, your father, brother, uncle, cousin, or any male can read a nikkah and certify that two people are married.
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I think in this case it is better to do the both type of nikkah...every one will be happy.
bebo their is no problem, just a difference of opinion. I am suggesting to follow guy sect coz of future. In a society and mentality of Pakistan everything is possible. People from guy side will take the crap out of guy on this issue !
Re: shia sunni wedding quesion
firenze no you did not offend me :) no need to say sorry...
**Najaiz k alafz aap ny istymak kiya hy ****Larky ko apny rishtadaron ki raay ki perwa hy apny zameer ki nahi?**Sala hata dyti hon agar ye insulting laga waisy koi aisi offend hony wali bat thi nahi I am out of thi sthread now Baqi sary Is sadi ky sanjeeda tareen masly per ghur o khoz farmao.
Ye koi problem nahi bas thread kholny ka bahan hy I know 4 sure:smokin2:
BTW Jab ye kaha giya ky “nasal tu baap se chalti hy” I just explain ky main ny jitny Shia larkion ky nikah sunni larkon se hoty daikhy hain(2:D) nikah Shia treqqy sy kiya giya (Ab treeqa kiya hy is liy nahi bata sakti ky Shia Nikah khwa larky larki or on ky waldyn ky sath kamery main tha or baqi Janta ko baher nikal diya giya tha.
waisy NAJAIZ ka lafz aap istymal kerin jaaiz hy main ny nasal ka bigarna keh diya tu takleef Wallah dil tor diya mera: KNK
PS: Ye ab main ny gur kiya ky tum Sunnion ko gali dy rahy hu ky on ky nikah jaazi nahi na jaiz bachy hoty hain on ky shiaion ki nazar main :aq: Bat kehny sy pehly sochty or ye c thread kholny sy pehly bhi
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Lusi, listen, boy has some relatives who are very Kattar shia.. boy's parents are OK with sunni nikah but are going to tell his relatives that he did shia nikah... his relatives are so Kattar that they have said that if his nikah is sunni then his kids will be najayaz and they will not accept Nikah... boy does not want in future his kids should hear such things..and those relatives are desperate enough to check records and do boy's badnami in whole shia community if he does sunni nikah.. now do you understand?
Ican understand the guy is only looking out for his wife and future children (iA)...esp living in pakistan, it's better to just go along than to fight cz when u are immersed in that society, fighting so many of the "norms"..its just a life of hell. And no parent wants thier kids to be called najayz..and livign in pak, its hard to avoid such jahil and ghatiya minded relatives (sorry but that's what they are. Sunni ya shia, that's really pathetic that they will go through such lengths).
but just one question, if these relatives will make his future life such hell..why even marry a sunni girl? why not a shia? hmm there's alot to this story.. hope u get ur answer soon though n g'luck.
Re: shia sunni wedding quesion
I guess the best thing for thread starter is call some moulvi or zakar in Pakistan and ask the question. This thread is just serving to highten the sectarian diffrences.
Questioner, if you have any issues that you still want to discuss PM the mods or director and we'll see what we can do.