There are some people who can look back on their lives and say if they had to do it all over again, they would like to do everything differently. I am not one of those.By the grace of Allah I consider my self blessed with …… Allah gave me such loving parents who provided me with all the facilities of this life meeting my material and conscious needs. I got the opportunity to study in one of the best available institutes under the kind guidance of able teachers and my supportive parents there untiring efforts and prayers led me to college and then university . Now when I see my life I don’t find any regrets whatsoever. I think I have all the blessings which this life is to offer.
My point of view is that If you want to have no regrets in your life then the answer is proactive living(Proactive Active living means plan wht u want to do ,mak strategies for it ,don’t wait for the things to happen rather make them happen, internal satisfaction is one of the things which u get out of proactive living ). When you are proactive in your life problems are seen as possibilities, obstacles are seen as opportunities to learn and occasions to do things differently. The only thing standing between you and a life without any regrets is you.
We are visitors on this planet for but a short period of time and if you keep on looking for that miracle way, way in the future you will miss the best part of your life.Realising how little time we have, puts a whole new perspective on life and makes you realise how precious life is.
i would....but i'm not in the mood of writing this very min :(
if this thread survives, i might contribute towards the end of the day or somethin. So reserve me a spot.
My dad passed away 3 days before he was to come to USA for the first time. I wanted him to come so I could take him around or just give him a good vacation break from his otheriwse effort full life.
I was away for 5 years from home , was not very close to him when I was in Pakistan. Wanted to make up for that during his visit.
Life takes amazing turns. The day he was suppose to be in USA, I ended up in Pakistan, attending his funeral (well, post funeral stuff cause his burial happened by the time I reached)
ur main prob is …A) " aisa koi zindage mai aie goo zindage koo zindage banie ..dil o jaan pe joo mug pe marai ..sirf mug se muhabbit karai ..merai khawaboo ke koya rahai ..merai shoulders pe soya …
no problem TLK. i feel you, i really do.
My grandparents passed away while we were here too...missed being there for 'em.
May Allah bless all those who have passed away, give their loved ones peace and strength to cope with the loss.
ps: Sam, sorry it's a bit off-topic from what u asked but it shows the regrets my parents had. Although we're still living here, but at the time when these things happened, they regretted leaving their beloved homeland.
Violence shuru krwa ker calm down krwa rahy hu:D