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the thing is i wouldnt go over board with the physical affection in public i mean i would holds and wat not but kissing some1 in the view of every1 is just a bit offputting for me and something i wouldnt do cos i remember wen i would see ppl doin that i would be like eww get a room
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Urgh. It's not that sexual intimacy is disgusting. People just have different tastes. I may not want a wet soggy person on top of me after a shower not because the intimacy is disgusting but because I prefer dry over wet. And that did not come out right...
^:cb: PCG… thats sooooo funny… I didn’t want to comment but couldn’t help it.
CM, actually… when you’re a single female you think ewwww, disgusting, repulsive, blah blah… its another story altogether after marriage… not repulsive or disgusting or a ‘duty’ as people call it. Thats all I want to say 
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I know what you mean about 'repulsion' to sexual intimacy...it's okay to not feel comfortable to discuss but be 'repulsive' is quite shocking BUT knowing the fact that a big chunk of women on this website are quite old doesn't make it so shocking anymore. I think it's just age and some culture mixed together!
^:omg: @ quite old… and how old is quite old, may I ask?? 
**#2. As i said before, men are also affected by culture in the bedroom, some of them have this mindset that his wife should be this innocent little creature, and he’s gonna teach her everything. Well hate to break it to you buddy, that maybe shes just a “freak in the bed” but now shes not gonna be a “freak” because as soon as she makes the first move, the hubby is going to assume she has done everything before:smack: **
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I totally agree, not only Pakistani but most of the Desi men hav that kind of mentality, even I have heard men checking on hymen thing.
Sorry, I can’t answer your question. Don’t want World War III. 
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More and more I hear about the crap that pakistani men do, the less and less I want to marry one. They assume you’ve had sex before because you know what you’re doing?
Have they ever heard of porn? Er, I mean, sexual education videos?
u know about the porn?
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Do you know how many desi girls know about porn? Seriously?
What plane of existence do you cavemen live in?
hayee allah. Many desi girls know about porn? awwwww… shame shame 
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Waits for the train of Pakistani women and men to come in denial
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When it's linked with romantic intimacy, it's pretty awesome. :D
The issue is not discussion of intimacy issues or acts. The issue is the revulsion shown to something that can be deemed natural. Whatever the act or discussion, the fact that desi women find some of the things in the 25 list thread wrong is shocking.
you're generalizing. who said we all find it repulsive?
LOL i love your honesty
I concur.
Its all about finding your balance kids! 
I sit/lean back on my other half when we’re at my parent’s house and we always hold hands, he plays with my hair etc. but I’d describe it more like the way I’d play with a puppy lol, it’s not dirty or ‘in your face.’ It’s funny cos my brother and his fiancee are the opposite and don’t even tend to sit on the same sofa unless there’s like a big gap..
When it's linked with romantic intimacy, it's pretty awesome. :D
Lol! :D
Its all very confusing. On one hand these american desi women claim to have never kissed or touched anything. But, on the other hand they know every thing there is to know only because of porn.
Lies, lies and more lies is all we see. Now thats something to roll your eyes about.
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